I found myself in my home office trying to arrange a spa day for my wife, Lisa, for Mother’s Day. I knew the general location of her favorite spa, though I wasn’t sure of its name. I also had no clue what services she typically enjoyed there, but I did know that she returned feeling rejuvenated and looking fantastic. So, I turned to Google for help, eventually getting the spa’s contact number. Soon, I was on the phone with a young woman who sounded amused as I, a father of three in my mid-30s, asked what were probably silly questions.
My plan was to surprise Lisa the Saturday before Mother’s Day. I intended to book her favorite treatments and then tell her, “Go have a blast, I’ll handle the kids. Just relax!” We’d even cap off the day with a nice dinner out. I had discussed this plan with a colleague who suggested I reach out to her husband for some subtle hints to ensure I got it right.
I felt confident until I found myself on the phone asking questions like, “What exactly is a facial?” and “How does a pedicure work?” I even wondered aloud, “Do they wax the entire face or just the eyebrows?” Cue the giggles from the receptionist. Although embarrassing, my questions were sincere; I genuinely wanted to ensure that Lisa got what she loved. I also needed to gauge how long she would be at the spa so I could time dinner reservations accordingly.
Midway through the call, as I cradled my forehead in my hands, I sensed someone watching me. I turned to see the office intern grinning and snapping a picture with her phone. She’s in her early 20s, bright and hardworking, and we share an office space. I raised my hand to signal her to stop, but it was too late; she had already posted it on social media.
Reflecting on that day, the entire situation now seems quite humorous. Some may even view it as sweet. However, the main point here is that after 13 years of marriage, I deeply love Lisa and strive to make her happy. I want to be the kind of husband who remembers special occasions like birthdays and Mother’s Day because those moments matter. Lisa is an incredible mom and deserves to be celebrated. Yet, moments like these often lead to feelings of awkwardness and embarrassment while I’m trying to do the right thing.
I don’t think every husband deserves a round of applause for stepping outside of their comfort zone, but there’s a lot of love behind those efforts. When your husband surprises you with a thoughtful gift, there’s often a backstory involving him grappling with uncertainty and perhaps a few awkward moments, like a guy in a florist shop or blushing while buying personal care products.
It’s important to acknowledge that women also step out of their comfort zones regularly for the men they love. Yet, these small acts of dedication from loving husbands often go unrecognized. After I concluded the call with the spa, I took a moment outside my office to collect myself and shake off the embarrassment. Once I regained my composure, I thought about how much Lisa would appreciate the surprise, and that made every awkward moment worthwhile—even if everyone was laughing at me on social media.
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In summary, planning a thoughtful gift for your partner can often feel like a daunting task fraught with awkwardness. However, the love and effort behind those moments are what truly matter, making all the embarrassment worthwhile.