To my beloved partner after the arrival of our child,
As we navigate this uncharted territory of parenthood, it has been a transformative journey. We entered the realm of labor as novices, relying heavily on the limited knowledge gleaned from classes and online resources. Your presence was a beacon of calm; you held my hand through each contraction, offering prayers during the more daunting moments, and shared in the emotional release as we welcomed our little one into the world. Your words of pride in my resilience—my so-called “superhuman strength”—carried me through the challenging days that followed, when I felt utterly depleted.
Now, with our newborn just five weeks old, I see glimpses of you in her smile. You continue to express your pride in me, in us, in our growing family. Daily, you remind me of my beauty—even on the days when my hair is predominantly styled with dry shampoo. You overlook my indulgence in the lactation cookies I prepared mainly for my enjoyment. You never hesitate when I express a need for caffeine or a leisurely stroll through Target. Your silence speaks volumes when I voice my emotional struggles, whether they stem from irrational tears or the bittersweet moments of watching our daughter grow too fast. You listen attentively, helping to ease the overwhelming changes that come with parenthood. You prioritize our relationship, ensuring we carve out time for each other amidst the whirlwind.
Your love remains steadfast, perhaps even deepening. You gently encourage me to evolve into the best version of myself—this version that is newly minted.
Though some days prove challenging and sleep becomes a rare commodity amid the cycle of diaper changes and feedings, you never falter. On those days when a shower eludes me and I find myself covered in milk and spit-up, you seamlessly step in to finish dinner when our baby demands to be fed again. You change most of the diapers and have mastered the art of brewing half-caf coffee. Your early mornings spent tidying up the kitchen while I manage feeding and pumping demonstrate your unwavering support; you express that you want to alleviate my concerns.
For all these reasons and more, I am profoundly grateful. Thank you for affirming my role as a good mother. Thank you for loving me—regardless of my appearance or emotional state. Your belief that I am beautiful, strong, and desirable, even when I struggle to see it myself, is a gift I cherish. I aspire to love myself with the same fervor you exhibit, as your love is truly unparalleled. I am grateful to be your partner in this journey of parenthood, and I thank the universe for this sacred time in our lives; I am confident that the best is yet to come.
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In summary, my partner’s unwavering support through the postpartum journey has been invaluable. His love and encouragement have made the challenges more manageable, reinforcing our bond as we embrace parenthood together.