In the quiet moments of the evening, I find myself cradling you in my arms, tempted to lay you in your crib. Yet, the mundane tasks of daily life—laundry to fold and dishes to wash—fade into the background as I savor the warmth of your small body nestled against me. At just 13 months old, those precious snuggles are becoming rare. If your eyes are open, you’re off exploring, crawling eagerly after your older siblings, and when it’s time for a nap, you wriggle away from me before I can even hum a lullaby.
Though I cherish these fleeting cuddles, I equally delight in watching you engage with the world. Each morning, you spring into action the moment I lift you from your crib, crawling eagerly and investigating everything in sight. Your laughter and radiant smile light up our home as you connect with everyone around you.
You are truly a gift to our family, my darling girl, a vibrant rainbow after a period of profound loss. Those nine months of anticipation before your arrival were wrought with anxiety. I remember the morning filled with dread as I experienced complications, fearing we might lose you. Miraculously, you were alright, but the worry lingered until you were safely in our arms. It was only then that the weight of my fears began to lift.
We always knew our family needed to be complete, yet we could never have anticipated how profoundly you would fill the void we felt. We yearned for you and prayed diligently, but it was your spirit we truly needed. Your ability to engage with the world, making eye contact with strangers and coaxing smiles from even the sternest faces, is a gift. The excitement you express when lifted into the air, legs kicking joyfully, reveals your vibrant heart.
Having a rainbow baby is a complex journey. The loss we faced before your arrival was the most challenging experience we’ve endured, and while I would give anything to know that child, I often wonder if we would have met you had circumstances been different. It’s a paradox I cannot fully comprehend.
As I savor your scent, a delightful blend of baby shampoo and peanut butter, I hold you close. You’re not asleep, but rather content to be here with me, your eyelids fluttering as you whisper “bye-bye” into the quiet. We strolled through the house together, showing you that your siblings were already asleep, encouraging you to drift off as well. Now, in this serene moment, your soft whispers echo a sweet goodnight to the world.
Sleep well, my precious girl. Tomorrow, we will tackle another day together.
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