Kids have a knack for noticing what sets them apart from their friends. Whether it’s height, hair color, or even the way they laugh, children are keen observers of the world around them. The real challenge lies in how we, as adults, respond to those observations.
While it’s essential to teach kids to treat everyone with kindness and respect, it’s just as crucial to help them recognize and celebrate differences instead of pretending they don’t exist. The new book, What’s the Difference? Being Different is Awesome, penned by father and author Jamie Foster, serves as a delightful introduction to discussions about diversity.
Foster was inspired to write this book in the wake of significant social issues, particularly after the tragic events in Ferguson. “I noticed that adults often took sides based on race, rather than engaging in constructive dialogue. I realized that understanding has to start young,” he explains. The importance of discussing race openly and frequently with children cannot be overstated. It’s not just about being uncomfortable; it’s about fostering empathy.
“How can a child relate to another kid from a different background if they are raised to believe everyone is the same? We need to acknowledge that we are unique and that these differences are to be embraced,” Foster emphasizes. The book targets children aged 3 to 5, a time when they are beginning to explore the world beyond home and are most receptive to these vital lessons.
Racism and bias are learned behaviors. It’s fascinating to see how children interact on the playground; they often play with anyone who is willing, regardless of appearance. “Kids will play with anyone until an adult tells them not to,” says Foster. This highlights how important it is for adults to model acceptance and understanding.
“Your differences are what make you special,” Foster notes. Given the current state of the world, it’s essential for parents and caregivers to guide children toward a mindset of empathy and acceptance. Teaching kids to ignore differences is not the solution; we must encourage them to appreciate the beauty in diversity.
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In summary, What’s the Difference? by Jamie Foster is an engaging way to kickstart important conversations about diversity among young children. It teaches them that being different is not just okay, but something to be celebrated.