Before I became a mom, I used to tease my friends who adored babies. “I love kids, but let’s be real—I’m not a fan of infants. Just hand them back to me when they’re toddlers!” Ah, how naive I was.
I had no clue that the moment each of my three little ones entered the world, I would be smitten. I didn’t expect to feel an overwhelming surge of love when my sons were laid on my chest or how my heart would race with protectiveness when my daughter was whisked away to the NICU before I could even hold her. I had no idea how sublime it would be to cradle a baby as they peacefully drift off to sleep, feeling their warmth and knowing they were safe in my arms.
I didn’t realize how much joy I would find in rocking them for hours in the nursery, breathing in the scent of their freshly washed hair while daydreaming about our adventures ahead. I was blissfully unaware of how rewarding it would be to provide them with the simplest needs—a warm bath, cozy pajamas, and a quiet room to sleep in. Little did I know that they would turn our house into a home filled with love.
Returning to work after maternity leave? I didn’t know I would miss them so deeply that I’d turn away visitors during the week, wanting to savor every moment together. I had no idea that the best part of my workday would be the mad dash home, just to see their smiles.
I didn’t know their babbling would become my favorite melody or that their giggles would be the soundtrack to my happiness. Witnessing their pride with each new discovery was a joy I never anticipated. I had no idea their unique personalities would start to shine so early or that they could hold such strong opinions, all of which provided endless entertainment.
As someone who never considered myself a morning person, I was shocked to find joy in waking up to the sweet sounds of baby chatter. Those chubby arms reaching out from the crib for a hug? Pure bliss! After a long day, I would sometimes sneak into the nursery, tiptoeing past the sleeping angels, just for a quick snuggle.
I was unaware that my existence would change profoundly, igniting a desire to be the best role model possible. I didn’t know how fleeting time would be. I thought I’d have all the time in the world until the day I shed bittersweet tears with my son’s teacher on his last day in the baby room, realizing my little one had already graduated to toddlerhood. Looking back, I now miss those baby days, and if I could, I’d rewind time to relive the sleepless nights and exhausting days, knowing they are overshadowed by cuddles, giggles, and the pure joy of innocence and simplicity.
Now I know.
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Summary
Becoming a parent is a transformative journey filled with unexpected joys and challenges. From the overwhelming love felt at the birth of a child to the bittersweet realization of how quickly they grow, each moment is precious. Embracing the simple joys of parenting and cherishing every laugh and cuddle can create a lifetime of memories.