My partner, Sarah, has been enamored with essential oils for about three years now. I’ll be the first to admit that I remain a skeptic about all the hype. I can already sense the throngs of oil aficionados gearing up to hit the comments section, but before you do, let me clarify: this isn’t a slam against essential oils.
You see, Sarah is one of those enthusiastic believers. We have tiny vials of oils sprinkled throughout our home—in the bathroom, cluttering the kitchen cabinets, and even crowding our refrigerator. She’s even tucked colorful, fragrant oil tubes into my work bag, hoping I’ll take a whiff during a stressful day. Our living space is adorned with misty diffusers, all aimed at alleviating my anxiety or soothing our kid’s coughs. I truly can’t fathom how much we’ve spent on these oils. Actually, I’d prefer not to know. For now, I’ll just bask in the lavender-scented ambiance.
The first time Sarah attended an essential oils party hosted by a friend from her book club, I couldn’t help but roll my eyes. This exaggerated eye-roll wasn’t just about the oils; it stemmed from the multilevel marketing tactics that often accompany these products. Essential oils seemed to be the latest in a long line of money pits Sarah had explored. Over our ten years of marriage, she has dabbled in various home-based sales parties, with varying degrees of success, and let’s just say we didn’t break even. We were both students at the time, and every dollar counted—especially for food, not fancy candles.
I initially thought this obsession with oils would be a passing phase, but here we are, and it’s clearly a lasting passion. Sarah not only loves essential oils; she genuinely believes in their benefits, while I am still on the fence. And herein lies the dilemma that often crops up in relationships: one partner is all in, while the other remains skeptical.
Despite the differing opinions on essential oils, one thing is crystal clear: I love Sarah. She’s the brightest star in my universe, a fantastic mother, and someone who deeply cares about our family and the people around her. While I’m not sold on essential oils, they matter to her. When I think about how much I cherish Sarah and respect her as my partner, I start to appreciate her enthusiasm for oils a bit more.
This is the essence of partnership—supporting each other’s interests, even when they seem a bit out there. Sarah is passionate about something I’m indifferent toward, and that’s perfectly okay. I doubt I’ll ever share her enthusiasm for oils, but that doesn’t diminish my feelings for her. Her interests belong to her, and as long as they are harmless and well-meaning, it’s not my place to dictate what she chooses to believe in.
Sure, she spends money on oils, but it never jeopardizes our family’s financial stability. We pay our bills, save for the future, and enjoy family trips—all without accumulating debt. So, honestly, if oils make her feel like she’s contributing positively to our lives, then who am I to object?
Just last week, I was grappling with a nasty neck pain. After three days of discomfort, Sarah massaged an essential oil-based cream into my neck while I sat on the living room floor. The cream felt soothing, but the best part was the care behind it. When I woke up pain-free the next morning and shared the news with her, her smile lit up the room. I could tell that her joy stemmed from feeling like she had made a difference in my discomfort, rather than just her hope that I was warming up to the oil craze. That moment reminded me that even after all these years, she still genuinely cares about my well-being.
And you know what? That’s a wonderful feeling—whether essential oils are involved or not.
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Summary:
In a light-hearted exploration of essential oils, Jaxon reflects on his partner Sarah’s unwavering passion for them, despite his skepticism. He recognizes the importance of supporting each other’s interests in a relationship, highlighting love, respect, and the joy derived from caring for one another.