Lifestyle
By Jessica Harper
Navigating the journey of motherhood can be filled with challenges, joys, and a few unexpected moments. Throughout my experience, I’ve encountered many friends, but there’s one who has truly been my rock as a mother. I met Sarah when we were both managing the delightful chaos of preschoolers and infants. Since then, we’ve become inseparable as mom besties.
She’s the go-to person I reach out to whenever I’m grappling with a peculiar behavior from my child. Our conversations can last for hours, delving into the complexities of parenting and everything that comes with it. It’s as if we share the same perspective on motherhood, giving us a unique bond that enhances our experiences.
We share laughter, tears, and insights. Without my mom BFF, my parenting journey would have been far less enriching. Thanks to her, I feel supported and understood, reminding me that I am not alone in this wild ride.
Similar to falling in love, recognizing your mom BFF often happens instinctively. Here are ten indicators that you may have discovered your kindred spirit in motherhood:
- After a nerve-wracking parenting incident — like your child taking a tumble or getting into a dangerous situation — she’s the first person you want to call to discuss your fears.
- Your children enjoy her company so much that they start referring to her as their second mom.
- You can candidly express your frustrations about motherhood, knowing she’ll empathize rather than judge you for having a tough day.
- She understands that while you cherish being a mother, you also need your personal space. She’ll encourage you to step out and take a break, and you’ll gladly take her advice.
- On days when you feel overwhelmed and need a breather, she’ll come over to take care of your kids or, if distance separates you, she’ll persuade you to hire a babysitter or mother’s helper.
- You both align on essential parenting values, allowing you to feel secure leaving your children in each other’s care for extended periods, trusting they’ll receive love and attention similar to what you provide.
- Her visits are never a burden, no matter when they occur. You know she’ll pitch in to help with chores or entertain your kids while you take a moment for yourself, and you would do the same for her.
- When your child says something humorously inappropriate, you text her immediately — often before telling your partner — because you know she will appreciate it the most.
- She knows your kids’ quirky nicknames that you only use in your thoughts (like Stubborn McStubberson), and you know hers.
- While your friendship begins with the foundation of motherhood, it blossoms into other facets of life. You’re confident that even as your kids grow up, she’ll be the first person you call to share exciting news or hilarious mishaps.
Mom besties are vital for maintaining our sanity throughout the various stages of motherhood, providing steadfast support and a shared sense of humor. They remind us that we’re capable of raising our kids without causing irreparable damage. Their presence offers comfort during breakdowns and camaraderie during our children’s amusing antics. They serve as our anchors, cheerleaders, and confidants.
To the mom BFFs who understand us, support us, and enhance our motherhood journeys, we raise a toast!
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In summary, recognizing your mom bestie is akin to discovering a rare treasure amidst the chaos of parenting. The bond formed through shared experiences and mutual understanding creates a lasting friendship that enriches both your lives.