In the realm of descriptors, I proudly embrace an alternate F-word—no, not the one you’re thinking of. Instead, I resonate with Friend, Fabulous, Fascinating, and yes, Freaking Awesome. I’m 47 years old and have earned each of my wrinkles and curves.
However, representation of someone like me is rare in popular media. Often, the older mom is portrayed as a clumsy overachiever who seems out of touch. I reject that notion wholeheartedly. I stand tall as a middle-aged mother who has navigated the challenges of homeschooling two teenagers through high school, endured ups and downs in my marriage during corporate upheavals, and still find joy in laughter and friendship.
It’s easy to lose sight of who we are amid the roles of mom and wife. When do we reclaim our identities? Recently, I watched The Other F Word on Amazon, and it resonated deeply with me. I laughed so hard I nearly lost control (a delightful side effect of being 47). The character Sherry, a Lyft driver, felt like my spirit animal. She embodies the fierce spirit we all need when faced with road rage. The show also bravely addresses topics like menopause and yes, even vibrators. “The best customers at my home sex toy party were ALL over the age of 40. Let’s face it, we know what we want, and we’re not afraid to go for it,” the show boldly states.
What’s impressive is that director Lena Martinez was told there was no market for a series highlighting midlife women. Undeterred, she self-funded and published the show on Amazon, which turned out to be a resounding success—garnering over 1 million views in its first season and more than 80,000 in its second. This triumph serves as a loud rebuttal to those who underestimated us.
Moreover, according to studies by She-conomy, women make over 85% of consumer purchases across various sectors. So, let’s stop assuming we know what women want; instead, let’s share the authentic stories of real women. The Other F Word is a series of short videos available for free on Amazon, and it’s an absolute must-watch, especially if you’re enjoying this journey into home insemination. For more insights on this topic, check out another engaging post on home insemination kit.
In conclusion, midlife women are vibrant, formidable, and deserve to have their stories told. We are not a demographic to be ignored or underestimated.