What defines a “best friend”? Is it an elusive concept representing the ideal companion we often fantasize about during our school days? Is it a trophy we boast about? Is it possibly the greatest treasure one can possess? The answer to each of these inquiries is a resounding yes, yet the reality is far more intricate.
My closest friend, whom I’ll call Sarah, possesses a profound understanding of me — sometimes even deeper than I grasp myself. While we both have other close relationships, if someone were to inquire about my “best friend,” she would undoubtedly fit the bill. This connection has spanned nearly thirty years.
Sarah has lifted me from the depths of my darkest moments when no one else was present. She comforted me through nights filled with heartache and pride that lay shattered. There were times when she cradled me during unbearable emotional pain.
Beyond being just a friend, Sarah has taken on various roles in my life: sister, confidante, roommate, maternal figure, and, on occasion, even an adversary. She has provided me with tough love, scolding me when I was being obstinate. She has voiced the uncomfortable truths I needed to hear and has fought for me through thick and thin. Above all, her unwavering support has always been a constant in my life.
Throughout our myriad experiences, escapades, and even mischief, we have persevered as a unit. Regardless of the physical distance that has separated us, our bond has remained intact.
They say love is everlasting, and I would argue that a genuine friendship can transcend all forms of love. Life’s twists — love affairs, marriages, divorces, and even children — have temporarily placed miles between us. Yet, our connection has never faltered. We are firmly rooted in our sisterly bond.
Even today, months can pass without a conversation, yet when we finally reconnect, it feels as if no time has elapsed. Our catch-ups are filled with joy, sharing everything from our latest adventures to the silly secrets we keep. There’s no judgment, no shame—just the two of us, laughing and sharing. And after we hang up, it’s perfectly fine if we don’t talk again for a while.
The passage of time is merely another facet of our seasoned friendship. Even as life moves forward, we remain in each other’s thoughts, always finding a way back to one another. We are, in essence, soulmates.
Without Sarah, navigating through my trials and errors would have been significantly more challenging. There were countless instances when I would have been lost without her voice on the other end of the line, reminding me that hope existed. She has been my constant, whether physically present or just a text away, especially during the stormy moments of my life.
A true best friend doesn’t necessarily share your bloodline or familial ties, nor do they always agree with your choices. Instead, a best friend serves as your comfort, your protector, and ultimately your reflection, showcasing both your strengths and flaws.
To my sister in mischief, my partner in laughter, and my ally through life’s challenges, I want to express my love and gratitude. You embody the true essence of what it means to be a best friend.
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In summary, a true best friend is irreplaceable in our lives, offering unwavering support, candid advice, and a connection that withstands the test of time.