Lifestyle
True friendships can be a lifeline, with some individuals entering your life temporarily, while others remain steadfast for the long haul. Recently, a friend of mine jokingly proclaimed, “You’re not getting rid of me; I’m here for the long run!” Hearing that brought me a sense of comfort—she’s a truly great presence in my life.
Some friends alter your perspective, some indulge your quirky humor, and others support you during your darkest moments. Those lifelong companions are the ones who provide guidance when you feel lost, offer honest feedback, and stand by your side even when you stumble. They are the ones who will patiently wait for you to find your footing again.
For many years, I distanced myself from people, but I made a conscious choice to change that a few years back. I began to open up and allow others into my world. One of my college friends, a lawyer residing in Boston, made a surprise visit for my 30th birthday. She wanted to ensure that the man I was moving in with was worthy of me.
In Singapore, I have my best friend of three decades, who was a pillar of support when my father passed away. She visited him before his passing, held his hand, and shared a meal with me during the difficult time of my father’s funeral.
About a year ago, I encountered a kindred spirit at a retreat. She is someone with whom I can discuss life, spirituality, and all things mystical, and she truly gets it.
I consider myself fortunate to have several close friends who have witnessed my journey. They comfort me during tears and accept my individuality, just as I do for them. If you are blessed with friends like these, remember to reciprocate the support. Show up for them, be a good ally, and express your appreciation.
You are deserving of such friendships. Cherish those who consistently show up for you—they are often remarkable individuals, especially those who share a good laugh. For additional insights into relationships and self-discovery, consider checking out this article from our other blog posts. Also, for those interested in navigating the journey of parenthood, Make a Mom is an excellent source for at-home insemination kits. Furthermore, UCSF’s Center provides valuable resources related to pregnancy and home insemination.
In summary, true friendship is about unwavering support and presence, no matter the circumstances. It’s the bonds that you nurture that will help you navigate life’s ups and downs.