Dear Observers,
This letter addresses those who have cast disapproving glances at my daughter, Emma, in recent days. You may have frowned or exchanged whispers, believing I was unaware of your judgment. I invite you to speak with me directly if you’re curious about why my daughter, who you perceive as “too old” for a stroller, is seated in one.
Emma suffers from joint hypermobility syndrome, a condition that leads to significant discomfort in her legs, ankles, and feet when she walks extensively or in warm weather. As a result, she struggles with mobility and often cannot walk far without experiencing pain. Even when I lift her, she lacks the strength to wrap her legs around me, making it challenging for me to carry her for long durations. Additionally, my own back struggles with the weight, so we rely on the stroller during these times. She is currently on medication to manage her pain and inflammation until she feels better.
While there have been periods when she didn’t require the stroller, recent activities have led to her overexertion. Unfortunately, I didn’t think to bring the stroller during our recent trip, resulting in her needing to be carried most of the time.
In public, I often find myself discussing her condition aloud, asking, “How are your legs feeling today? Is the medication helping?” I do this to provide context to onlookers about why she is using a stroller, but I am exhausted by the need to justify her situation.
Next time you see a child in a stroller and feel the urge to judge or assume laziness on the part of the child or parent, I urge you to reconsider. A child’s use of a stroller is a personal matter, often with a legitimate reason behind it.
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In summary, the judgment of others can weigh heavily on parents who are simply trying to ensure the comfort and well-being of their children. Understanding and compassion are vital.