A model offers a refreshing perspective on unflattering social media images.
We’ve all experienced that sinking feeling when we spot an unflattering photo of ourselves tagged on social media. In an instant, we start scrutinizing every perceived flaw—those acne scars we might have overlooked, the hints of a double chin, or the weariness in our eyes. The list can feel infinite, prompting an immediate action to untag ourselves, and even a desperate plea to friends to delete it altogether.
However, model Lisa Thomas is encouraging us to embrace these so-called “bad” photos instead. Her reasoning is surprisingly compelling. Thomas, who shares insights on her blog, posted a side-by-side comparison of two images: one meticulously posed and the other candid.
“These images both represent me,” she remarked. “Captured on the same day and in the same outfit. Neither is better or worse than the other, but I understand why it’s hard to accept that about ourselves.”
Lisa elaborated on the common instinct to dissect our flaws in tagged images, noting that we often lack the opportunity to curate these moments before they’re shared publicly. “When you see a photo of yourself, you tend to zoom in on what you perceive as imperfections,” she explained. “That’s why we often struggle with candid shots; we didn’t have a chance to minimize those aspects beforehand.”
She advocates for taking a step back, both literally and metaphorically. Instead of fixating on how we appear in that specific moment, we should reflect on the context of the photograph and our feelings at that time. “Zoom out and consider the bigger picture,” she suggested. “Remember what the photo was meant to capture. It wasn’t for a magazine cover; it was simply a snapshot of life. Focus on the memories tied to it—the sights, sounds, and emotions of that moment.”
“Zoom out (swipe…) and you’ll see that the complete image tells a much more significant story than just your appearance. Every version of you deserves to be seen,” she emphasized.
So, next time you’re tagged in a photo that doesn’t resonate with you, take a moment to breathe and zoom out. The joy of a beautiful day spent with friends or the taste of an incredible meal will far outweigh any odd lighting or angle.
This article was originally published on Jan. 19, 2018.
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Summary
Model Lisa Thomas has a unique take on the anxiety that comes from being tagged in unflattering photos on social media. Instead of focusing on perceived flaws, she encourages individuals to appreciate the memories and emotions tied to those moments. By zooming out, we can see a bigger picture that celebrates every version of ourselves.