By: Jenna Collins
Updated: June 3, 2021
Originally Published: January 28, 2018
It’s astonishing that some individuals fail to grasp this concept. I recognize that germs are ubiquitous—at daycare, during sports, at parks, and yes, even within our own homes. However, my concern arises when an adult knowingly approaches my children while exhibiting signs of illness.
Regardless of who you are, I understand you adore my kids; after all, they are irresistibly adorable! You may wish to shower them with affection, and they reciprocate that desire. But here’s the reality: germs do not discriminate based on your intentions. They can severely impact my children’s still-developing immune systems. Whether you are a parent, grandparent, aunt, uncle, friend, or acquaintance, I implore you to maintain your distance from my kids when you are sick.
Your illness is irrelevant to me. “It’s just a slight cough,” you might say, or “I only have a sore throat, it’s nothing serious.” But what many fail to realize is that what seems minor to an adult can pose a significant risk to a young child or baby. A simple cough or sniffle can escalate into something far more serious for them. Beyond using an aspirator and a humidifier, there’s little that can be done to ease a baby’s discomfort. In more severe cases, what you dismiss as a “little cough” could lead a child to require hospitalization—or worse. So, it doesn’t matter if you have a cough, the sniffles, or even something more serious; please refrain from approaching my children when you’re unwell.
No Exceptions, Please.
Maybe we have a playdate planned, or you’re invited to my child’s birthday celebration, or perhaps you’re set to babysit. Regardless of the situation, I beg you—stay home! There will always be future opportunities to bond with my kids, and I can easily find another babysitter. It’s simple: please respect my request to keep your distance when you’re not feeling well.
Respect Boundaries.
If we find ourselves in the same place, I ask that you honor my wishes when I say, “Please don’t get too close to my kids.” This isn’t an attempt to be rude; it’s a protective measure against illnesses you may not even realize you have. You might feel upset with me, perhaps even leave in a huff, but don’t take it personally. Prioritize my children’s health over your feelings.
Have you understood my point yet? I’m not naive; I’m aware that germs are everywhere. It’s more about mutual respect and courtesy. If we have plans and you or your child are under the weather—even if it’s just a sniffle—please notify me so I can make an informed decision about exposing my kids to your sick little one, just as I would do the same for you.
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Summary:
In conclusion, the importance of keeping sick individuals away from children cannot be overstated. Understanding the risks and demonstrating respect for boundaries guarantees the health and safety of our little ones. Open communication about health conditions is essential for maintaining safe environments for children.