I have always held a deep affection for my nation. The breathtaking variety of its landscapes and the rich tapestry of its people fill me with pride. I admire the principles of a government that is truly representative, designed “of the people, by the people, and for the people.” The careful balance of power within our political system and the rights enshrined in our Constitution are aspects I value greatly.
However, like many with a sense of conscience, I grapple with the complexities of our nation’s origins. I honor the bravery and resolve of our founders while also denouncing their colonial actions. I respect the political innovations they introduced, but I cannot overlook the pervasive white supremacy that accompanied their legacies. As actor Malik Sanders articulated regarding his portrayal of a historical figure in a popular musical: “He can have authored this remarkable document that embodies our beliefs, yet he remains flawed. Both assertions hold true.”
America encapsulates both the noblest and the most troubling aspects of humanity. It has never been flawless, but it continually strives for improvement, which is why I hold it dear.
The America I cherish is one that welcomes the weary and the oppressed, the dreamers yearning for freedom. It is a nation built by immigrants and their descendants, all seeking brighter futures and navigating new paths. This America is dedicated to realizing its promises of “liberty and justice for all” and “out of many, one.” It makes progress, albeit haltingly, often taking two steps forward for every one step back. I have always believed in this vision and have made it a priority to impart these values to my children.
Yet, I sense a profound shift occurring. The very ground beneath us feels unstable. I witness the core tenets of our system being challenged more than ever. The phrase “liberty and justice for all” seems to be eroding, particularly for those who have lived here for most of their lives, undermined by leaders who lack a basic understanding of civic principles. I hear from marginalized communities who consistently communicate that they have never truly experienced our guarantees of “life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.” Sadly, these voices are often met with ridicule and dismissal from those in power.
I observe a rise in white supremacy, fueled by greed and deepening inequality. I see leaders fixated on regressing to a vague notion of when America was supposedly “great,” without ever clarifying that period. The focus appears to be more on tax breaks than on the healthcare of millions. I see an administration that isolates us from our allies and undermines our global relationships. Partisan divisions are fraying our institutions and challenging our shared humanity.
While selfishness and bigotry have always existed, I do not recall a time when I questioned whether the America I hold dear could endure. I struggle with feelings of humiliation regarding my nationality now more than ever.
How can I instill in my children a respect for the presidency when it is currently defined by rampant nationalism, questionable appointments, and a lack of dignity? How can I teach them to feel pride in being American when the principles we value seem to be disintegrating?
The foundation of the U.S. was built on the premise that a better form of governance is possible. Our founding documents were intentionally crafted to leave room for evolution, as the founders recognized their limitations. America’s greatness lies in its capacity for progress and adaptation within a framework that safeguards against tyranny. This system once seemed infallible, but I have my doubts now.
I am weary of feeling as though I have lost the America I once cherished. I am tired of telling my children that this is not how things should be. I want them to know and love the America I grew up in. I want that country back.
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In summary, while I hold a profound love for my country, I grapple with the current state of affairs. I aim to instill a genuine respect for its ideals in my children, despite the troubling transformations taking place.