Trauma, particularly post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), manifests after individuals endure or witness life-threatening situations, such as violent incidents or disasters. My own experience with PTSD began after a tragic car accident claimed the life of my 18-month-old son, Max. In the immediate aftermath, my mind replayed the events like a relentless film loop, leaving me in a state of horror. I remember confiding in my brother about the peculiar soundtrack that accompanied my trauma—90s hip-hop playing in my head as a strange coping mechanism.
Following the loss of Max, both my partner and I were diagnosed with PTSD. We sought help from a therapist about a month later, engaging in weekly sessions to navigate our grief. This journey was extensive and challenging, filled with heartfelt conversations and therapeutic techniques. My partner explored EMDR therapy to address his flashbacks, while I found solace in visualization exercises shortly after the accident, which proved beneficial.
Living with PTSD was a daunting experience, drastically affecting my daily life. I struggled with the idea of returning to work due to the anxiety of interacting with clients. Driving became an insurmountable challenge, as fear of potential dangers loomed over me. My anxiety was all-consuming, leaving me hesitant to leave my home, worried about recognition from the media or facing well-meaning inquiries that could trigger painful memories.
At the time of Max’s passing, I was 33 years old, an adult grappling with the terror of my experience. The trauma reshaped my worldview in ways I never expected.
Recently, I’ve been following the remarkable actions of young survivors of one of the deadliest school shootings in history. Instead of fleeing in fear, these brave teenagers united and mobilized for change. Their resilience in the face of unimaginable horror is nothing short of heroic.
Though I lack the qualifications of a psychologist, I suspect many of these young individuals may also be grappling with PTSD. Yet, they choose to confront their fears and advocate for gun control to prevent future tragedies. These teens serve as a powerful reminder of bravery; I often remind myself of their youth. When I lost Max, I was a full-grown adult, and I cannot fathom the courage it takes for them to stand up and fight publicly.
They have faced unjust criticism in the media, being targeted and attacked at a time when they should be receiving support and encouragement. It pains me deeply to witness such treatment toward young individuals who have already endured so much. During my darkest moments, the thought of facing media scrutiny would have been unbearable.
These remarkable young activists deserve our unwavering support. They need to know they are not alone in their struggle and that we stand with them in their fight. It is crucial for these survivors to understand that adults will support them in their endeavors.
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In summary, the bravery exhibited by school shooting survivors is inspiring and serves as a reminder of the strength found in unity and advocacy. Their fight against gun violence is a call to action for all of us to support and uplift those who have faced unimaginable challenges.