Understanding the Distinction Between ‘Feeling Anxious’ and Living with Anxiety

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When experiencing an anxiety attack, the sensations are far from mild discomfort. Unlike the trivialized panic episodes sometimes portrayed in popular culture, my own encounters begin with an overwhelming physical response. My muscles tense up, particularly in my chest, and I can see the concern etched on my partner’s face, prompting him to urge, “Just breathe.” But breathing becomes an arduous task; my breaths come in short, gasping hitches, leaving me feeling trapped within my own body.

These episodes can be so intense that we once considered getting a service dog to help manage my symptoms, but with the appropriate medication, I’ve managed to regain some control. My diagnosis of Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) comes from a highly regarded psychiatrist, and before treatment, even the simple act of dressing could send me spiraling. I often felt isolated, convinced that my social anxiety rendered me friendless, while my academic achievements felt overshadowed by a gnawing sense of inadequacy. My struggles with anxiety began at just eight years old.

It frustrates me to see the term “anxiety” being used so casually in today’s society. As noted by a recent article in the UK’s Metro, the ongoing discussions surrounding anxiety and depression can unintentionally create a gaslighting effect on individuals who are otherwise healthy. When anxiety becomes a buzzword, it can diminish the gravity of the condition for those genuinely suffering. Vice’s Tonic column highlights that the casual use of anxiety-related terminology can trivialize the profound panic experienced by those with real disorders, making it challenging for their struggles to be taken seriously.

When many people refer to their anxiety, they are often expressing concerns over everyday stressors—bills, parenting challenges, or minor life inconveniences. According to Dr. Sarah Thompson, a psychiatrist at the Wellness Center, “Anxiety itself is a normal reaction; it becomes a concern when it overwhelms daily functioning.”

For example, the simple decision of what to wear can become paralyzing, leading to tears and chaos. The mind races with obsessive worries: the fear of an accident on the road, the unshakeable dread that one’s partner might not return home safely, or the nagging belief that one is failing as a parent. These thoughts can spiral into a physical illness if not managed properly.

As noted by a recent contributor, Emily, “The distinction between feeling anxious and living with anxiety is critical. Life’s stresses can affect anyone temporarily, but anxiety can be an all-consuming condition requiring ongoing management.” It’s crucial that we use language thoughtfully, distinguishing between general worry and the debilitating nature of anxiety disorders.

For those of us with GAD, the severity can necessitate medication just to function daily. While it’s normal to feel nervous about social situations or personal responsibilities, these feelings differ fundamentally from the relentless burden of anxiety disorders. Recognizing and acknowledging this difference is vital, as it validates the real struggles faced by those with conditions such as GAD and OCD.

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In summary, it is essential to differentiate between the common experience of anxiety and the serious implications of anxiety disorders such as GAD. This understanding fosters empathy and ensures that those truly in need receive the appropriate support and treatment.