Recently, we decided to grab a meal at a local restaurant. As is our routine, we parked in an accessible parking spot, which is essential for our family. Upon exiting the establishment, we encountered a vehicle parked directly in the loading zone of one of the accessible spaces. This area also serves as a crucial pathway where the sidewalk transitions into a ramp.
Due to the obstruction, I had to carefully maneuver my daughter’s wheelchair down the curb. Some curbs are high enough that I need to guide her backward, but thankfully, this one was shallow enough for her to go down forward. As we navigated around the vehicle, I noticed that there were occupants in both the driver’s and front passenger’s seats. The frustration I felt was palpable, but before I could express it, my partner, Sarah, spoke up first.
I couldn’t help but wonder: What if these individuals had been dismissive of accessible parking, restrooms, ramps, and handrails until now? What if life took a sudden turn? An accident, a condition at birth, or even a health crisis could change their circumstances overnight. Would they then feel entitled to the respect and consideration they had not afforded others?
I urge you, dear reader, don’t wait for accessibility needs to impact you personally. Show kindness and understanding to those who require additional support, and set a positive example for your children, nephews, nieces, or even strangers in your community.
We will not be silenced. We will persist in advocating for our daughter, teaching her to advocate for herself as well. We believe that accessibility should be universal, and I hope you share this belief.
“You can’t park here. You’re blocking the ramp, which makes it difficult for individuals in wheelchairs to access,” I said.
“I was just here for a minute. The drive-thru messed up my order,” the driver replied.
“It doesn’t matter. You’re obstructing the ramp for those who need it,” Sarah interjected.
“Whatever, just shut up!” And with that, they drove away.
Clearly, the individual who told us to “shut up” is not familiar with the values of community respect and advocacy. However, I still want to address her mindset.
Accessible parking, ramps, and designated loading zones are not meant for brief stops or convenience. They exist for those who genuinely need them. One day, you too might find yourself in a situation where you require these facilities, and you will understand the importance of respecting them.
My daughter was born with a disability, while most children are not. However, as people age, their bodies may decline; it’s a natural part of life. Eventually, many will likely need assistive devices, even something as simple as a cane. When that day comes, they will be on the other side of the equation.
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In summary, it’s crucial to recognize that accessible spaces are vital for those in need. We should all strive to create a respectful and considerate environment for everyone, regardless of their abilities.