In today’s world, social media has transformed how we celebrate birthdays, often showcasing extravagant parties for young children. Many parents are now eager to spend lavishly on these events, creating elaborate gatherings that can include dozens of attendees. I’ve seen friends who routinely invest around $500 for each birthday celebration, which I find quite excessive.
When my son turned one, we opted for a modest gathering at my parents’ home, limited to close family and a few cherished individuals. The party ran from 3:30 p.m. to 5 p.m., featuring pizza and a big blue vanilla cupcake that my son barely touched. My mother decorated his high chair with banners and a cute Mickey Mouse hat, while family members from both sides attended. We made a conscious decision not to invite a wider circle of friends, as our space was limited, and we were completely comfortable with this choice.
Despite the small guest list, our son felt the weight of attention on him and we didn’t linger long. After posting a few photos online, I received an unexpected message from a so-called friend expressing disappointment that her daughters weren’t invited. This message implied that I had somehow wronged them by not including them in our intimate celebration. It left me feeling frustrated, as it seemed unreasonable for them to think they deserved an invitation over others.
Another acquaintance expressed sadness over not being included, but after I clarified our low-key approach, she became more understanding. It’s puzzling that I felt the need to justify our choices. Just because some families opt for grand celebrations doesn’t mean we have to follow suit. My partner and I grew up without extravagant birthday parties until we were much older, and we believe that our son, at just one year old, doesn’t need that kind of extravagance. Looking ahead, when he turns two, we plan to maintain our simple style without renting a venue or visiting large play centers.
Ultimately, my child’s birthday celebration is not about pleasing others. If you’re feeling slighted for not receiving an invitation, consider your involvement and expectations throughout the year.
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In summary, it’s important to remember that birthday celebrations can be as simple or as elaborate as you wish, and it’s perfectly acceptable to prioritize what feels right for your family.