1. The sheer delight on their little faces.
When I tell my kids that, yes, they can have one more cherry Popsicle on a school night, it’s an irreplaceable moment. While guidelines are essential for providing structure, occasionally bending those rules offers a joyful experience that everyone who has indulged themselves can relate to. (Hello, chocolate-covered pretzels, you’re my weakness!)
2. Life is fleeting, and challenges arise.
A glance at the news confirms the unpredictability of life. I’m not suggesting a reckless splurge on every toy on their wish list out of fear, but it’s wise to cherish our time together. When your child asks for an extra hug as they head off to school, and you’re pressed for time, pause and give them that hug — or two.
3. It fosters an attitude of thoughtfulness.
Surprising my children with a gift for no particular reason, just because I was thinking of them, helps teach the importance of being considerate. Whether it’s a new storybook or a quirky toy from a local shop, these gestures illustrate that caring goes beyond mere etiquette. While material gifts aren’t the only way to express love, thoughtful gestures like a heartfelt note or a painted rock found outdoors can mean the world.
4. Creating memories requires active participation from caregivers.
Spending time at the park when it’s not the most convenient, visiting the zoo in sweltering heat to see their favorite animal, or allowing a few extra minutes to catch fireflies are all ways to make cherished memories. Whether it’s reading an additional bedtime story or sneaking in a little more cake on a birthday, those moments matter. Another toss in the air to pretend to be an astronaut, even when you’re exhausted, is worth it.
5. It simply feels right.
Sometimes, a small impulse strikes me — whether it’s a chocolate shaped like a bug or an idea for a fun outing — and I just know my kids will love it. I’ll admit, there are times when financial constraints make such indulgences impractical, but when I can, I go for it. I have never regretted those moments of spontaneity.
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In summary, indulging my children brings joy, fosters thoughtfulness, creates lasting memories, and feels inherently right, all while reminding us to cherish each moment together.