Laura Thompson
Updated: Aug. 4, 2018
Originally Published: Aug. 4, 2018
Writing about personal hardships has never been a challenge for me. I have consistently opened up about my parenting difficulties, sharing my experiences with vulnerability and honesty. I believe that when we speak our truth, there is no room for shame, especially when it is a narrative beyond our control.
Being a mother to my son is a formidable task. I often recount personal stories to raise awareness for families like mine and to advocate for those in similar situations. Sharing these experiences is vital for healing and empowerment, unlike the silence that can stifle growth.
Yet, I find myself grappling with my own burdens of shame and stigma. I have only revealed part of my reality to you, my friends.
The reality is this: My name is Laura, and I am an alcoholic.
When people hear the term “alcoholic,” they often envision a stereotype that does not include the friendly neighbor down the street. They likely do not think of the mother of two who appears to have everything together—who manages therapy appointments, attends school events, and prepares dinner nightly. To many, the term “alcoholic” is associated with someone who is homeless, disheveled, and incapable of maintaining a job.
In today’s society, one would hope that the understanding of alcoholism has evolved, recognizing that it affects individuals from all walks of life, regardless of gender, status, or background. However, the stigma persists; many still regard addiction as a choice, believing it is within the individual’s power to simply quit.
Let me clarify: no one wakes up and decides to be controlled by alcohol or drugs. This condition is often rooted in genetics, embedded in our very DNA since before birth. We have no more agency over it than our physical traits.
What is often left unsaid about the journey to sobriety is that it becomes significantly more challenging before it improves. Once the decision is made to stop drinking, all the emotions and issues one chose to numb resurface, raw and vulnerable. Learning to navigate life without the crutch of alcohol is a process that is more arduous than one might imagine.
Over the past two years, I have begun to claw my way out of the depths of alcoholism. I have grasped at every shred of hope and strength to guide me from darkness into a reality I never thought possible—a life I believed I did not deserve.
Imagine existing in a realm of shadows, physically present but emotionally absent. Deep down, you sense that there is so much more to life, yet you have no idea how to attain it or if it is even feasible.
The shame associated with this diagnosis has imprisoned me for too long, confining me behind the bars of secrecy. Years ago, it hindered me from seeking the help I desperately needed. Today, it holds me back from leveraging my voice and writing to advocate for women like myself—those who wish to heal but are too embarrassed to ask for assistance.
For me, the final step toward achieving a peaceful sobriety involves embracing this identity openly. Achieving and maintaining sobriety is not only the most difficult thing I have ever done but also the most rewarding. I am immensely proud of my journey, and I want to celebrate it. I envision standing atop a mountain, proclaiming to the world, “I AM SOBER—WATCH ME THRIVE!” I want to wear my sobriety like a badge of honor, marching proudly with my message of hope and resilience.
I share this to amplify the voices of women who suffer in silence. I want those who might be struggling to know they are not alone and to encourage them to take that first step toward healing. Help is available, and I assure you, everything else will eventually fall into place.
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Summary:
Laura Thompson bravely shares her journey with alcoholism, challenging the stereotypes that often accompany the label. By revealing her struggles and triumphs, she aims to shed the stigma associated with addiction and empower others to seek help. Her story serves as a reminder that sobriety is a challenging yet rewarding path, and that there is hope for those who feel lost.