As a parent, I’m not here to preach about how to spend more quality time with your kids or to jump on the “limit screen time” bandwagon. I understand that electronics are a part of our lives and that we can’t ignore them. In fact, I support the idea of having an online presence, as we utilize it in our household every day.
I’m no stranger to YouTube; I even have my own channel, and my child has one too! The platform is unavoidable in today’s digital world. However, when it comes to young children—especially when their brains are still developing—they often lack the ability to make sound decisions. This is why it’s crucial to consider what influences are shaping their minds.
The Reliance on Digital Babysitters
Honestly, I sometimes rely on YouTube to keep my kids (aged 6 and 3) entertained. It’s convenient—I can get chores done, attend meetings, or prepare meals with minimal interruptions. But when the screen goes dark—whether it’s due to a dead battery or forgetting the iPad on a long car ride—the “gimmies” start to surface. The whining increases, and gratitude seems to vanish.
During my week without YouTube, I began to notice how my older child’s behavior shifted dramatically when he was in control of what to watch on the platform, including YouTube Kids. After eliminating YouTube for just a week, I observed a remarkable change in their demeanor. Respect returned, the “gimmies” diminished, and whining subsided. Coincidence? Perhaps, or maybe not.
The Influence of YouTube on Kids
Many children idolize YouTube personalities who often exhibit disrespectful behavior towards their parents, getting what they want through whining and complaints. And guess what? This content is profitable for creators because it attracts young viewers. Kids learn to assert their independence from seeing other kids on screen getting what they desire by acting out.
Consider this: they witness characters demanding toys, wanting fast food, or outright rejecting parental guidance. Is it any wonder that they start to replicate that behavior?
Impressionable Minds: The Impact of Content
Young children are sponges, soaking up everything around them, especially actions they observe. When they consistently watch others their age getting rewarded for bratty behavior, it undermines any lessons we try to impart. I could have multiple discussions with my children each day about values and appropriate conduct, but those conversations might fall on deaf ears when they are repeatedly exposed to such content.
So, what’s the solution?
“Alright, then what should they be watching?”
That decision lies with you, the parent—the one who shapes your household. If you appreciate the convenience of YouTube, then be intentional about the content. Is it educational programming like science experiments or storytelling? Perhaps something nurturing like Bible stories?
Ultimately, it’s your call. I’m not here to cast judgment or claim superiority in parenting. If you find value in YouTube for its ability to engage your child, that’s fantastic. Just be mindful of what they’re consuming and how it influences their behavior.
After our week-long break, I reintroduced YouTube, focusing on kindergarten lessons. Initially met with skepticism, the kids soon expressed excitement over learning to add and subtract—bonus!
The “Perfect” Parent Debate
Some might argue, “It’s all about parenting. We can’t shield kids from everything.” And I completely agree. But why not address potential issues before they escalate? I advocate for taking small steps rather than attempting to implement sweeping changes all at once. It’s about progress, not perfection.
Some parents might proudly declare, “I never let my child choose what to watch on YouTube!” That’s great, and it’s clear they care deeply about their kids. The mere fact that you’re reading this article shows your commitment to finding the best for your children.
The essential takeaway is to be aware of who and what influences your children in their formative years. For more insights into this subject, check out our other blog posts or visit this resource, which offers valuable information on parenting and digital influences.
In summary, taking a break from YouTube allowed me to see the positive effects of limiting exposure to certain content. It’s important to be selective about what children watch and to recognize the impact it can have on their behavior.