Decluttering Is All the Rage, But Let’s Dive Deeper into the Discussion

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For the past year, my social media has been inundated with friends showcasing their decluttering journeys: overflowing garbage bags filled with items destined for donation or the curb. “Look at all this stuff I’m tossing out! Just two closets, haha! Off to the dump! Getting rid of things feels AMAZING! Yay!”

The allure of decluttering is obvious—who doesn’t relish an orderly junk drawer or a neat closet where every item is visible and wearable? Personally, I still cling to about ten pairs of size-four jeans from 2007 that haven’t fit since before my second pregnancy a decade ago. I really ought to let go of those; they do nothing but bring me down.

However, what’s striking is how little we discuss the reasons behind our accumulation of so much stuff in the first place—or how to prevent future clutter. It’s a conversation we need to have, because the reality is that we, as Americans, have an overwhelming amount of stuff. It’s genuinely detrimental to our well-being.

Did you know the average American home contains around 300,000 items? That’s not a typo. Shockingly, this figure doesn’t even account for everything we own. The storage industry is booming, with one in ten Americans renting storage units, and over 50,000 facilities available—providing enough space for each American to enjoy 7.3 square feet of personal storage. How absurd is that? Despite the fact that the size of American homes has tripled in the last 50 years, our garages are so packed that we can’t even park our cars inside. It’s no wonder the home organization sector is growing at an astonishing rate of 10% annually.

And let’s consider this: 3% of the world’s children live in the U.S., yet we hold 40% of the toys. It’s ludicrous, especially since most children engage with only a handful of favorites. Why are we cluttering our kids’ spaces with toys that are seldom played with, made from environmentally harmful plastics?

Our clothing consumption mirrors this trend. Today’s Americans own three times more clothing than those in 1930, with each person discarding around 65 pounds of clothes every year. Feeling uneasy yet?

Overconsumption is a distinctly Western issue. Only 12% of the population in North America and Western Europe accounts for 60% of global private consumption spending, while a third of people in South Asia and sub-Saharan Africa contribute a mere 3.2%. Annually, Americans spend a staggering $1.2 trillion on nonessential items—essentially things we don’t need.

And then we discard it all, either due to necessity (like packaging and junk mail) or in the name of “decluttering.” But where does all that waste go? Since 1950, humans have produced approximately 8.3 billion tons of plastic—over half of which sits in landfills, with only around 9% recycled. Scientists estimate that the remainder is now in our oceans, with between 4.8 to 12.7 million metric tons entering the seas each year. This is shameful.

How did we arrive at this point? How do we address it? In the U.S., we gauge our health through consumption metrics. This is not just figurative—it’s literal. Our culture heavily relies on continuous consumption, and if we aren’t growing, we’re deemed failures. The S&P and Dow Jones are indicators of economic health; as long as they rise steadily, we’re good. These markets thrive on production and consumption.

GDP (Gross Domestic Product) measures how much we produce, while consumer spending indicates whether we’re still buying. If we don’t purchase enough, we risk recession or worse. To prevent this, companies use planned obsolescence—designing products to wear out quickly, ensuring we replace them. Our economy—and our well-being—rests on a disposable culture. Marketing bombards us with messages equating social status with ownership of the latest products.

How did we come to this juncture? Why does Western culture equate success with consumption? And how do we initiate change before we irreparably harm our planet? Consumerism is not a requirement for human life. It’s a social phenomenon deeply rooted in history, tied to financial markets that measure societal health. Some cultures have linked material wealth to social status, and with industrialization, we’ve intensified this belief.

To foster meaningful change, we need a cultural shift. We must reconsider what genuinely enriches our lives and redefine success at personal, national, and global levels. The daunting reality is that achieving such a paradigm shift could displace millions who benefit from our consumption-driven economy, many of whom work under poor conditions and for meager wages.

Even if sweeping changes seem unattainable, we can each be more mindful of our consumption and the values we impart to our children. Here are a few ideas:

  • Steer clear of bottled water.
  • Invest in experiences rather than products.
  • Opt for secondhand items—clothes, furniture, cars.
  • Don’t wait for clutter to accumulate to evaluate whether items “spark joy.” Instead, ask yourself while shopping if you truly need that seasonal décor that will only serve a couple of months.

Change is crucial. We can act now or leave the burden for future generations to tackle in a world overwhelmed by our misguided pursuit of happiness through possessions.

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Summary

The trend of decluttering is popular, yet it overlooks the larger issue of overconsumption and its environmental repercussions. With a staggering amount of material possessions in American homes, it’s crucial to address how we accumulate these items and to foster a shift in mindset toward mindful consumption.