When I first approached my doctor about the troubling symptoms I was experiencing, I was met with skepticism. “I think you’re just a hypochondriac,” he sighed, throwing in, “Maybe it’s anorexia?” It was a frustrating moment, especially since I had been battling illness for over a year, starting with what I thought was a stomach virus during Thanksgiving.
Juggling my first semester teaching college freshmen while also pursuing graduate studies, I initially dismissed the virus as a minor setback. However, the following sixteen months would turn into a bewildering and distressing ordeal. My weight plummeted alarmingly despite my constant eating and drinking. I was relentlessly hungry and thirsty, yet my energy levels were non-existent. Simple tasks felt monumental, and I often found myself too weak to move from the couch.
During my fifteenth visit to the doctor, desperation set in. I was exhausted, and my healthcare provider’s annoyance was palpable. When he suggested I was fabricating my symptoms, I felt utterly defeated. I returned home, overwhelmed, and cried, staring at my wedding photo, a reminder of the vibrant woman I once was.
On an ordinary Friday, I tried to grade student essays but ended up guzzling an orange shake and collapsing on the couch, completely drained. My husband’s persistent calls finally prompted me to answer. He sensed something was wrong and rushed me to the emergency room.
It was there that I received a life-altering diagnosis: type 1 diabetes, an autoimmune disease that had left me in a state known as diabetic ketoacidosis (DKA), a condition that could be fatal if untreated. The nurses were astonished I had survived. My blood sugar level was a staggering 700, far beyond the normal range. I was quickly admitted to the ICU, where I was connected to tubes and machines, fighting for my life.
After my hospital stay, I found a new doctor and left behind the one who had misdiagnosed me. I contemplated taking legal action but ultimately decided to focus my energy on managing my health. Surprisingly, type 1 diabetes is straightforward to diagnose with a simple blood test, yet my classic symptoms had gone unrecognized.
Fast forward twelve years, I found myself again dealing with dismissive healthcare. A concerning lump in my breast prompted me to visit my gynecologist, who suggested monitoring it despite my discomfort. Unsatisfied with this approach, I sought a breast surgeon on my own and insisted on a biopsy, leading to my second diagnosis: breast cancer.
Switching hospitals and doctors, I was faced with the choices of a bilateral mastectomy or a lumpectomy followed by radiation. With my new doctor’s support, I opted for a mastectomy, joining the unfortunate statistic of women under forty diagnosed with breast cancer. At long last, I had found a physician who listened to me.
These two experiences left me wondering: Was it just bad luck, or was there a gender bias at play? Both doctors who initially misjudged my conditions were men, and I often felt their perception of me as merely a neurotic woman clouded their judgment.
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In summary, my journey through misdiagnosis was fraught with challenges but ultimately led me to the importance of advocating for my health. It’s a reminder that we must be our own fiercest advocates, especially when the stakes are so high.