“VAMPIRES?!” my best friend Sarah texted, her excitement palpable even through the screen. “You’re writing about vampires?! And I had to find out on Instagram?!”
“Sorry!” I typed back. “It’s for Halloween.”
“I declare we’re not catching up enough if I’m hearing this via social media,” she replied, and I couldn’t help but agree. Living 700 miles apart makes spontaneous chats difficult, and I really should have given her a heads-up about my latest writing adventure—especially considering her predictable response of disbelief followed by an eager request for the mythological details I’d chosen to explore.
Even though Sarah is a long-distance friend, I can always count on her. She might need to pause our conversation every now and then, but she’s always there to make me laugh or share in my tears. That’s the beauty of long-distance friendships.
When people ask who my friends are, they often mean those they see regularly. When I mention that my best friend lives across the country, I can almost see the puzzled looks. How can we be so close if we’re so far apart? But thanks to phones, texts, and the internet, our friendship thrives. I remember a time when calling a friend just 25 miles away cost a fortune; now Sarah and I can chat for hours without worrying about minute limits, and we send unlimited texts filled with gifs and photos.
In fact, many of us communicate with our long-distance friends more than those who live nearby. I know Sarah’s work schedule, and that distance makes it easier to open up about things I might hesitate to share face-to-face. There’s something freeing about confiding in someone who isn’t physically present; it creates a unique space for sharing embarrassing or deeply personal stories.
For instance, I’ve been grappling with a mental health issue for some time now, and very few people around me are aware of it. Yet, Sarah knew long before anyone else. So don’t even suggest that she doesn’t count because of the miles that separate us.
Long-distance friendships require a certain commitment. They’re not casual connections; there’s a reason we became close. Whether we met online or maintained our bond after a friend moved away, we’ve put in the effort to stay connected. Amidst our busy lives, it’s easy to let relationships fade, but we choose to prioritize our friendship.
After college, I moved away, and it took years for me to reconnect with my high school frenemy, Lisa. Now, we’re genuinely best friends, albeit from a distance. We celebrate each other’s birthdays, share photos of our families, and check in to see how we’re doing—making the effort to keep our bond strong.
While close friends may share physical spaces—sitting at the same kitchen table—long-distance friends also have their own kind of presence. They might not be there for random coffee breaks, but a simple message can brighten your day. A text from Sarah might pop up unexpectedly, sharing a nostalgic song from our high school days, reminding me of our shared history.
When I finally scored tickets to Hamilton, guess who I texted first?
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In summary, long-distance friendships may not fit the traditional mold, but they are incredibly meaningful and require dedication. No matter the distance, love and support can transcend miles, creating connections that truly matter.