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Moms Can Often Feel Isolated
Updated: Sep. 27, 2019
Originally Published: Sep. 22, 2019
The most challenging time to keep close friendships often coincides with the period when we need them most. Connections among moms are crucial for numerous reasons. Research highlights the beneficial impacts of these relationships on mental well-being, providing a sense of community and validation during one of life’s toughest phases. Yet, I’ve observed that many mothers can feel incredibly lonely, even when surrounded by their little ones.
As a mother of three energetic boys, I have been navigating this journey for over a decade. While motherhood has been the greatest joy of my life, it has also brought its fair share of challenges. Many moms feel stretched so thin during this busy stage that nurturing deeper friendships feels nearly impossible. We are juggling numerous responsibilities and often feel like we are dropping the ball. The self-imposed pressure can be overwhelming, and guilt often creeps in about what remains unfinished. As a result, we neglect to invest in friendships, focusing instead on simply managing our hectic lives.
We also crave someone to share our feelings with—someone who truly understands our experiences. We need that supportive friend who can say, “I’m here for you,” “I’m thinking of you,” or “You’re doing an amazing job.”
Friendships provide a much-needed escape from our home and work lives, allowing us to embrace our individuality. They offer a chance to connect with like-minded women who won’t judge us and will instead help us find humor in the challenges we face. It’s essential to have other women to walk alongside us during this phase. They can help us rediscover joy and allow us to express our feelings without the constraints of our roles as mothers or professionals.
If you’re reading this and feeling the weight of loneliness, don’t be too hard on yourself—many new moms share this sentiment. Those who do have close friendships often cultivate them with intention. I am well aware of the balancing act of running a business, supporting my boys’ education, managing extracurricular activities, trying to be a supportive partner, and keeping up with household duties. Recognizing my need for close friendships has led me to actively schedule time with my best friends, whether it’s family gatherings, dinner dates, or even casual walks. I treat these moments as essential as any other obligation.
Take the plunge, mama. Reach out to that friend, and share your thoughts on life—both the ups and the downs. You’ll return to your family feeling rejuvenated, more joyful, and balanced, far more so than if you attempt to navigate everything alone.
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Summary
Motherhood can often lead to feelings of isolation, as the demands of parenting leave little time for nurturing friendships. It’s vital for moms to seek out connections that provide support and understanding during this challenging stage. Scheduling intentional time with friends can help alleviate loneliness and foster joy, allowing mothers to recharge and return to their families with renewed energy.