If Your Church Isn’t Advocating for Black Lives, It May Be Time to Move On

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In the context of the ongoing national discourse surrounding racial justice, I find myself compelled to reflect on my experiences as a white Christian woman who regularly attends church. While my family has transitioned to online services during quarantine, three years ago, we made the pivotal decision to leave a predominantly white evangelical church. Our departure stemmed from a growing discontent with the broader political environment and the realization that our children were often acknowledged, yet not genuinely seen. We now belong to a predominantly Black congregation, where our multiracial family feels embraced and valued.

Recently, I anxiously awaited reports from fellow white Christians about their church services. Would their pastors address the urgent issue of racism, affirm the importance of Black Lives Matter, and encourage congregants to stand in solidarity as allies? Unfortunately, many pastors chose to sidestep the issue entirely, opting for vague messages of peace or citing Martin Luther King Jr. in a bid to appear engaged. This raises a critical question for white Christians: knowing where their church leaders stand, should they remain or seek a new community?

The Christian faith calls for love and empathy. Scripture clearly states that faith without action is lifeless. While prayer holds significant value, it cannot replace the active pursuit of justice and love for others. As believers, we are meant to embody the “hands and feet” of Jesus, fulfilling the call to be “salt and light” in the world.

For those who have distanced themselves from the church due to perceived hypocrisy, you are not alone. It is disheartening to see congregations failing to pray for people of color while neglecting tangible actions such as educating themselves on anti-racism, participating in protests, or advocating for progressive candidates. The frustration is palpable.

Jesus, a figure of profound compassion and radical love, consistently challenged the status quo. He performed miracles and didn’t hesitate to confront injustice, as evidenced by his actions in the temple. His mission was clear: to uplift those who were suffering and marginalized.

Some white Christians believe that discussions about politics and social justice should be excluded from church discourse. Many prefer a comfortable experience, avoiding sermons that challenge their perspectives. However, this complacency inadvertently supports systemic injustices. Silence in the face of racism is complicity; it suggests that Black lives do not matter. Token gestures, such as sponsoring children of color or using diverse imagery, fail to address the deeper issues at play.

I firmly believe that churches, like individuals, must choose to be either actively anti-racist or passively racist. Ibram X. Kendi eloquently argues that there is no neutral stance on racism. Embracing anti-racism is a lifelong journey, not a destination marked by a single class or seminar.

Pastors need not deliver flawless messages about racism; the act of speaking up is essential. Silence equates to the message that Black lives are of lesser importance. It’s vital that conversations about racism and justice are ongoing, as these issues are deeply embedded in society and won’t vanish overnight.

A pastor who professes God’s love must also be willing to advocate for justice and put others first. We are called to empathize with those who suffer and to share in their grief.

If white Christians continue to support complacent churches, they risk perpetuating harm to their Black brothers and sisters. Raising children in an environment that promotes whitewashed teachings only cultivates future generations who may hold onto these prejudices. Financial contributions to a church that dismisses these issues further entrench systemic inequalities.

My faith has been a lifeline during challenging times, including my battles with health issues. It has shaped my understanding of love and justice, leading me to recognize that Black Lives Matter unequivocally.

To my fellow white Christians: I urge you to embrace this truth with conviction. Do not hesitate or second-guess; find a community that reflects your values and actively champions justice.

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In summary, if your church is not actively advocating for Black lives, it may be time to reconsider your commitment. Embrace the call to love and action, and seek a community that aligns with these principles.