The pandemic has prompted a complete reevaluation of our summer plans, and my children couldn’t be more thrilled. In the still-chilly days of late winter, I had confidently mapped out our summer schedule, eagerly anticipating the summer camp registration deadline. As a parent who typically invests around $6,000 annually for my three kids to attend day camp for ten weeks, I had my expectations set for what the summer would hold. My oldest is nine, while my twins are nearing seven, and leaving them unattended for extended periods is simply not an option. As a freelancer and small business owner, my income hinges on my ability to work, and with the hefty camp fees looming, I thought I had devised a clever plan involving a mix of camps and a teenage babysitter.
But then, like an unexpected wave at a sports event, the coronavirus swept across the nation, derailing our plans. Summer breaks are already challenging for working parents, and this new reality, filled with uncertainty and health risks, added an extra layer of stress. Many families, including mine, faced cancellations or had to rethink our summer possibilities due to safety concerns and financial strain. The pandemic has certainly pushed us to adapt, and I am not alone in this struggle.
On the brighter side, I have the flexibility to work during the night, and as restrictions begin to ease, I’m optimistic about returning to work outside the home while adhering to safety protocols. I’m still counting on having a reliable helper, but everything remains in flux. Fortunately, many employers understand the current situation.
Challenges of a Summer at Home
However, the challenges abound. My children are boisterous and messy, turning our home into a whirlwind of activity. The usual summer attractions—playgrounds, pools, and theaters—are either closed or deemed too risky for visits. Our neighborhood, backyard, and leisurely nature walks (or as my kids call them, “not another stupid nature walk”) will be our primary summer hangouts.
In search of ways to keep my kids entertained while I work, I resorted to Amazon, typing “toys that will occupy my kids for eight hours.” Among the suggestions were classic games and movies. I justified the upcoming expenses since I wouldn’t be spending on camps or other summer activities we used to enjoy. Drawing from my own childhood experiences, I ordered outdoor toys like sidewalk chalk, super soakers, and a new basketball hoop. I even went ahead and purchased a 10×30 inch inflatable pool with a pump—an upgrade from our tiny baby pool that quickly becomes a muddy mess. This new addition promises to be a fun oasis for the kids, who can pretend it’s a fancy resort hot tub.
To complement our summer vibe, I added some Fla-Vor-Ice pops to our grocery list, and simple sandwiches will likely become our go-to meals. My children are overjoyed with these changes. Their days now start at their own pace, allowing them to wake up without the usual morning rush. Though the house is a mess and the air carries a hint of sweaty feet, I’m finding peace in the chaos. Their happiness is a reminder that even during uncertain times, we can create joy at home.
Finding Joy Amidst the Chaos
As we navigate this unconventional summer, I’m grateful for the opportunity to keep my kids close and engaged, even if it means managing a little more stress. We’re all doing our best to stay afloat in this ever-changing environment. Here’s hoping that the challenges we face now don’t lead to more absurdities in the future.
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Summary
The pandemic has forced families to rethink summer plans, leading to creative adaptations and new activities at home. As parents navigate the challenges of working while keeping their children entertained, they find joy in the unexpected changes.