My son is absolutely obsessed with dinosaurs. While many children go through a dinosaur phase, his fascination has lasted for almost two years and shows no signs of fading. He spends countless hours immersed in dinosaur facts, and according to him, there’s still so much more to learn.
Dinosaurs are his ultimate passion, and he makes sure everyone around him is aware of it. From the moment he wakes up until he falls asleep, he’s chatting away about various prehistoric creatures. If no one is there to listen, he converses with himself, and we can tell he’s asleep when the talking stops. His imagination is vibrant, and I cherish that about him. His capacity for knowledge is impressive, and I’m genuinely proud of how brilliant he is.
However, when you combine his non-stop chatter with his intense dino obsession, it can be quite overwhelming. As much as I love him, I have to admit that I’m not particularly interested in dinosaurs. Before his fascination took off, I could name maybe ten species—just the classics like T-rex and triceratops. Now, thanks to his relentless “dinosaur lectures,” I can recognize a Parasaurolophus from a distance and wouldn’t confuse a brontosaurus with other long-necked dinosaurs anymore.
Since we’ve been home together so much, my son has taken the opportunity to turn our living room into a non-stop dinosaur classroom. Even during breakfast, he bursts in to share the latest insights he’s learned about rhamphorynchus. I want to share his enthusiasm and encourage his love for learning, but I also don’t want to discuss dinosaurs every single moment.
As his parent, part of my responsibility is to help him navigate social interactions. It’s crucial for him to learn how to read the room and understand when he’s been talking for too long. I want him to grasp the concept of reciprocal conversation—where both parties have a chance to share their interests. It’s important for him to recognize that sometimes, he must pause his favorite topics to show interest in others.
A few weeks ago, while I was listening to a podcast in the car, he finished his schoolwork and began to excitedly share facts about the carnotaurus. He asked me to turn off the podcast so we could dive into dino-talk. I agreed, but took this moment to gently discuss the need for some boundaries around his dinosaur discussions.
I told him how much I admire his knowledge and passion but also explained that I wanted to finish my podcast. I encouraged him to draw a dinosaur or watch a video on his iPad instead. I emphasized that, just as he gets excited about dinosaurs, I also have interests that I want to engage with.
It was a tough conversation, but I knew it was necessary for his growth in communication. He asked if I was upset, and I reassured him that I wasn’t. I felt a swell of pride when he suggested a great idea: “What if I say, ‘Would you like to hear something about the acrocanthosaurus?’ or ‘Is this a good time to talk about dinosaurs?’” I agreed that this was an excellent approach to gauge when to share his enthusiasm.
Now, when I need a break from dinosaurs, he checks in with me to see if it’s a better time. I’m proud of how he’s learned to respect boundaries, and it’s a relief to see him thrive in this newfound understanding.
His birthday is just around the corner, and he’s requested a dinosaur-themed celebration, complete with a volcano cake. I’m excited to indulge him on his special day, and I know we’ll be able to talk about dinosaurs as much as he wants—he’s learned to ask first, and that fills me with joy.
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Summary
Navigating a child’s intense passion can be overwhelming, especially when it comes to topics that may not interest you. In teaching my son about boundaries through his love for dinosaurs, I’ve helped him understand the importance of reciprocal communication and respecting others’ interests. This journey has allowed him to grow socially while still celebrating his passions.
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