In this edition of Ask Home Insemination Kit, our team addresses your burning questions about family dynamics, parenting challenges, and navigating societal expectations.
This week, we tackle a common scenario: How do you respond when people incessantly inquire if you’re “trying for a boy” after already having two daughters?
Dear Home Insemination Kit,
My partner and I are blessed with two wonderful daughters, ages three and one. My husband hails from a large family—he has three siblings, each with multiple children. We always envisioned having just two kids, and we’re completely satisfied with our beautiful girls. We don’t focus on the gender of our children; in fact, we opted out of the typical “gender reveal” parties because we find them unnecessary.
Despite our happiness, family, friends, and even some casual acquaintances keep asking us if we plan to “try for a boy” next time. This incessant questioning feels disrespectful to our daughters and frankly, it’s none of their business! It’s frustrating, and it often leaves us feeling uncomfortable.
The notion of “trying for a boy” shouldn’t even be a topic of concern unless you’re a member of a royal family worried about passing down a title. It’s bewildering how many people lack awareness or sensitivity when it comes to discussing family size, fertility, and the gender of children. Having two daughters is perfectly fine! And, ultimately, no one can choose the sex of their children, so the obsession with it is just… why?
The best way to address these inquiries is with straightforwardness. Since the questioners are direct, feel free to respond honestly without guilt.
THEM: “Oh, two girls! Are you going to try for a boy?”
YOU: “Nope! We’re absolutely happy with the two wonderful kids we have.”
THEM: “But wouldn’t you love to have a son and experience [insert annoying gender stereotype here]?”
YOU: “Nope! We’re totally content with our two fantastic daughters. But I’m curious, why do you think we should feel differently?”
THEM: *silence*
Turning the question back on them can often leave them speechless or, at the very least, prompt them to change the subject.
Wishing you the best as you navigate these conversations and enjoy your holiday season.
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In summary, it’s essential to set boundaries when it comes to personal family decisions. Being direct and confident in your responses can help others understand your perspective while respecting your happiness.