Many people have a set idea of what life is like for a Hollywood star, but I can assure you it’s not what you imagine. As someone married to one, I’ve seen the reality firsthand.
Before you jump to conclusions or pass judgment, let me clarify: I’m not sharing this to complain. I knew what I was signing up for when I married my husband, and I wouldn’t change a thing. My goal is to shed light on the true nature of celebrity life and remind everyone that stars are just regular people too.
My husband may not be a household name, but he’s built a solid career and has gained recognition in his industry. People often recognize his face and voice, yet surprisingly, we lead a fairly mundane life in the suburbs, much like many of you.
He is one of the most down-to-earth and humble individuals I know. He would rather enjoy a home-cooked meal than dine at an upscale restaurant, and he loves nothing more than relaxing in our own bed or working out alone in the garage. For him, he is simply a man who loves his job, which just so happens to place him in the public eye.
However, this isn’t your typical 9-to-5 job. It’s a wild ride, filled with unpredictability and rejection. The next job could come out of nowhere, and we often have to be ready for sudden changes. He might get a last-minute call and have to fly out within 24 hours, or we could face a long stretch of no work at all.
Sadly, my husband is away from home quite frequently. His work requires extensive travel, and even when he’s nearby, long hours—often exceeding 14 hours—are the norm. He rarely knows his schedule in advance, and there are no sick days or set time off. His availability is dictated by production schedules, leaving us to adapt.
We do our best to avoid long stretches apart, usually trying not to go more than a couple of weeks without seeing each other. I often travel to join him when I can, and he tries to come home when possible, but it’s not always feasible. There have been times we’ve gone up to six weeks without seeing one another. His work takes him everywhere—from Canada to North Carolina—and I’m always hopeful he can make it back for the weekend.
Occasionally, I get to travel with him, which was enjoyable before we had kids, but it’s become much more complicated now. Our eldest has flown more than some adults, and our youngest already has his passport stamped. However, juggling school and other activities makes family travel almost impossible, and vacations often become spontaneous weekend trips.
As his wife, I have to stay prepared for his absence, which can be challenging when transitioning from having him home to being away for extended periods. His frequent absences have made me appreciate his active role as a husband and father even more.
With him away so often, I handle most of the day-to-day parenting, which can feel overwhelming. It also sometimes means my career takes a backseat. So when he’s gone for long stretches, I remind myself that he misses home just as much as I do.
I don’t have maids or nannies helping out around the house—I do the cooking and cleaning myself. Life at home is pretty standard; there’s often a mess somewhere, unfolded laundry in multiple rooms, and a chorus of kids yelling or crying. While school is in session, I feel like a taxi driver, and the chaos during the “witching hour” between dinner and bedtime is real.
What frustrates me the most is when people judge me based on assumptions. Strangers often think they know me, my husband, or our lifestyle. They rarely bother me, but a quick internet search reveals plenty of trolls critiquing my marriage, parenting, and life choices.
Are there perks? Absolutely! My husband gets to support our family doing what he loves, and we enjoy a comfortable life with happy kids. Although we’re mostly homebodies, some of the glamorous Hollywood events are a nice change. I relish the chance to dress up and engage in adult conversations with interesting people.
For the most part, we can live our lives normally, although it’s not uncommon for strangers to recognize him and ask for pictures or autographs. I often chuckle when people try to discreetly confirm his identity. Yet, once they get past the celebrity façade and get to know us, they realize we are just everyday people.
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In summary, living with a celebrity isn’t as glamorous as it seems; it comes with its own set of challenges and realities. While there are unique aspects, at the core, we are just a normal family navigating the highs and lows of life together.