At Home Insemination Kit, we’re here to provide you with advice on everything from life and love to parenting and body image, all while navigating the complexities of modern life. This week, we tackle a common struggle: how to embrace the holiday spirit when it feels elusive. If you have your own questions, feel free to reach out through our platform!
Dear Home Insemination Kit,
I usually look forward to the holidays, but this year I’m really struggling to get excited. The thought of Christmas shopping is daunting. I dread going to stores, and shopping online lacks the usual joy. I’m feeling down about missing cherished traditions, like our neighborhood cookie exchange and Christmas Eve gatherings with family. It’s Thanksgiving week, and I can’t seem to muster any feelings of gratitude. I don’t want to be a Grinch, but it’s tough. I want my kids to create wonderful holiday memories, but I’m at a loss about how to make that happen this year.
Sincerely, Holiday Grump
Dear Holiday Grump,
I totally understand where you’re coming from. This year has brought so much stress and uncertainty that it’s completely normal to feel less festive. I’m feeling a bit Grinch-like myself, to be honest. But don’t worry; there are ways to navigate this and even foster some holiday cheer.
First, allow yourself to feel your emotions. This year has resulted in various forms of loss—even if it’s not the loss of a loved one. We’ve lost familiar routines, treasured traditions, and time with loved ones. It’s important to acknowledge these feelings. I’ve discovered that when I try to suppress my grief, it only becomes louder and more painful. So, permit yourself to cry if you need to, or write down your feelings about this holiday season without shame.
Once you’ve processed those emotions, it’s time to shift gears. Sometimes, you have to “fake it ’til you make it.” This may sound counterintuitive, but once you accept your feelings, you might need to be your own motivator. Play some festive music, string up extra lights, or light some holiday-scented candles.
If you adjust your perspective, you might realize there are still plenty of things to be thankful for this year. A slower-paced holiday means more time for simple family pleasures. Your health is a blessing, and by altering your traditions, you’re helping keep others safe. Plus, good friends are just a call or message away. The unusual circumstances of this year could even open the door to establishing new traditions that you may not have considered amidst the usual holiday hustle.
You can hold space for both joy and sadness simultaneously. As my friend Lucy says, an “attitude of gratitude” can genuinely transform your experience.
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Summary:
The holiday season can be challenging, especially when faced with stress and loss. It’s essential to acknowledge your feelings and allow yourself to grieve the traditions you might be missing. Once you’ve processed those emotions, try to uplift your spirits by engaging with holiday activities that bring you joy. With a slight shift in perspective, you may find new things to be grateful for, creating a fulfilling holiday experience for you and your family.