A recent survey reveals what many women have long suspected: dads tend to take more “me time” compared to moms. As the pandemic continues to disrupt family dynamics, it appears that mothers are still bearing the brunt of household responsibilities, leaving fathers with more time to relax.
Conducted by Zulily, the survey presents some concerning statistics. A staggering 88% of mothers believe their primary role in the family is that of a “giver.” This sentiment is echoed by the fact that 68% of moms report having just 1-5 hours of “me time” each week, whereas 37% of dads claim to take 6-10 hours for themselves. Only 26% of fathers reported spending a similar amount of time on personal care.
With the holiday season in full swing, it’s noteworthy that 70% of mothers feel they don’t receive enough recognition for their efforts during this busy time. While many fathers might argue that they don’t see the need for a lot of the tasks moms consider essential, they often enjoy the outcomes of their partners’ hard work.
The disconnect continues with shopping responsibilities; 87% of mothers say women handle household shopping, while only 46% of dads believe that’s the case. A mere 1% of mothers agree that men contribute significantly to the shopping load. As the holidays approach, it would be beneficial for fathers to take on more of this responsibility, even if most shopping is now done online.
Moreover, 90% of mothers feel societal pressure to be “super” moms, while only 52% of parents believe this pressure applies to fathers. Interestingly, 56% of dads view themselves as “super” dads, compared to just 42% of moms.
While I wouldn’t say I’m “lucky” that my partner shares household duties equally, it’s more of an expectation. Even though we both get our fair share of “me time,” I often feel guilty when I indulge in it. My partner doesn’t hesitate to spend a leisurely Saturday morning exercising or binge-watching shows, while I constantly tally my free moments to ensure I’m prioritizing family needs. As our children become more independent, I find it easier to carve out time for myself, yet the pressure to be the perfect mom still weighs heavily.
Moms, let’s prioritize our well-being this holiday season. Even if we only accomplish a fraction of our to-do lists, we deserve to relax and enjoy the fruits of our labor—perhaps with a cozy drink in front of the tree we worked so hard to decorate while watching Hallmark movies.
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Summary: A recent survey highlights a significant disparity in “me time” between dads and moms, with fathers enjoying more personal time while mothers feel the weight of household responsibilities. As the holiday season approaches, it’s essential for mothers to recognize their hard work and allow themselves moments of relaxation, despite societal pressures.