This Christmas, I genuinely want nothing. No gifts, nada. If my family takes my request to heart, I should end up with an empty space beneath the tree. Fingers crossed!
In a typical year, I adore Christmas—it’s my favorite holiday! I haven’t lost my holiday cheer; our tree shines brightly in the corner, every window is adorned with lovely wreaths, and my kids are scheduled for a safe, outdoor visit with Santa this weekend. We’re doing our best to keep up traditions.
I usually enjoy receiving gifts too; I’m a sucker for anything shiny or meaningful. Recently, a friend gifted my kids matching Christmas pajamas, and I was so touched I nearly cried. I promise I’m not a complete Grinch!
However, after being cooped up at home since March, I’ve become painfully aware of the clutter we’ve accumulated. Our kitchen appliances could fill a small store, and I’ve tossed out a mountain of expired lotions—only to find I still have plenty more left. The laundry seems endless, and we have more clothes than we know what to do with.
This year, there isn’t a single gift that I can think of that I want more than to avoid adding to our overflowing belongings. My family of five creates a massive mess every day with what we already have. My husband and I tuck the kids in at night, exchange a knowing look, and then spend an hour restoring order before the cycle repeats.
When my mom asked what I wanted for Christmas, I told her, as I have told everyone else, that I want absolutely nothing. If they feel compelled to give me something, I’d prefer a little peace and quiet. However, we do need a new swing set since the old one has finally given out. I propose that instead of buying gifts for anyone in our family, they pool the money they would have spent and help us invest in that swing set. It’s a present that will continue to bring joy for years to come.
Everyone responded the same way, “That’s not something for YOU!” Exactly! That’s why I love the idea. What could be more “for me” than an outdoor activity? It requires no cleaning, doesn’t come with countless tiny pieces, and is free from play-doh and slime. Best of all, it will entertain my kids outside—away from the indoor chaos of virtual schooling and household chores.
2020 has been a tough year already. My kids will get their fair share of toys under the tree, and I’ve spent time hunting for the best deals. On Christmas morning, we’ll experience their joy and wonder, and I’ll genuinely be happy for them.
However, as for myself, I truly wouldn’t mind receiving nothing this year. In fact, it would bring me immense joy. Just a call or FaceTime chat to share holiday well-wishes would be perfect. I’d love to hear that 2020 is nearing its end, that a vaccine is on the way, and that next Christmas might resemble something closer to normal.
That’s all I need.