Let’s be real. Many of us are just not feeling the holiday spirit this year. By “feeling it,” we mean the joy, excitement, and desire to bake cookies, hang ornaments, and listen to seasonal tunes. Perhaps it’s the toll of ongoing pandemic stress or the strain of endless virtual schooling. Maybe it’s the disheartening sight of our empty bank accounts or the frustration with the people who refuse to take necessary precautions. Or perhaps it is the heartache of missing loved ones or worrying about those battling illness.
For countless reasons, we’re embracing our inner Grinch as we close out this exhausting year. Instead of feeling merry, we’re feeling irritable. The Christmas spirit? More like, “Can I just hibernate until there’s a vaccine?” Decorating the tree, hanging lights, and baking cookies seem like distant memories.
It’s frustrating because we need joy now more than ever. So here’s the plan—we have a few days left to dive deep and rediscover our lost holiday spark. If the Grinch could find it in his heart, so can we. 2020 is almost behind us, so let’s hang a wreath, wrap some silly holiday socks for the kids, and try to coax that Christmas spirit back out. It’s still lurking, we promise!
Confessions from Parents:
- I’m just not up for Christmas this year. I can’t put up the tree or decorate. I just want to enjoy some downtime with my kids. Presents? Whatever.
- Between eLearning for my boys and the chaos of the day, all I want is a moment of silence. Christmas? Not excited.
- Today, I’m doing all the festive activities with the kids, but honestly, I feel numb inside.
- Can we just skip Christmas this year? It feels like another obligation on top of helping the kids with their online classes.
Don’t stress if you’re feeling overwhelmed; it’s okay not to bake all the cookies or buy gifts for everyone. Cut yourself some slack. Bundle up in cozy pajamas, take a drive to look at lights, and enjoy some hot cocoa. Voilà—Christmas spirit achieved!
Many are feeling the financial strain this year. Just remember, what truly matters is making sure your kids feel loved. Even if the pile of gifts is smaller or you all stay in your pajamas, that’s perfectly okay.
If you’re feeling the pressure to create the perfect holiday, know that you’re not alone. It’s exhausting to put in all the effort and feel unappreciated. If you’re facing challenges, take a deep breath and remind yourself that you deserve a break.
Above all else, remember to take time for yourself. You’ve earned it.
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Summary
This year, many parents are feeling the weight of the holiday season more than ever, grappling with stress, financial strain, and the general exhaustion of 2020. It’s okay to let go of the pressure to create a picture-perfect Christmas and instead focus on love and togetherness.