As we step into a new year, many people set resolutions, but I’ve decided to take a different approach this time. After aiming high in 2020 and not achieving those ambitious goals, I found myself becoming the most cynical version of myself. So, instead of lofty aspirations, I’m embracing the power of good advice. While I can’t predict what 2021 will bring, I believe that having wise words to guide me will help navigate whatever challenges lie ahead.
I reached out on social media to gather the best pieces of advice people have received. Here are some of the gems I plan to tape to my bathroom mirror:
- “When your joys are simple, no one can take that happiness from you.” — Jenna L., Florida
- “Everything is always better in the morning.” — Max T., Indiana
- “Don’t borrow trouble. Focus on what’s happening now instead of worrying about potential future issues.” — Emma J., New York
- “Love yourself first and wholeheartedly.” — Sarah K., Wisconsin
- “Some people are just toxic, and we don’t owe them any explanations.” — Leah M., North Carolina
- “Be courageous; powerful forces will come to your aid.” — Jamie F., Ohio
- “Embrace who you are. Your relationship with yourself is the only one guaranteed for life.” — Mia D., Michigan
- “Never pass up a chance to use the restroom.” — Ava P., Florida
- “Form your own opinions about others instead of following the crowd.” — Zoe N., South Africa
- “It’s okay to make mistakes, just make sure you learn from them.” — Grace H., Texas
- “Don’t lower yourself to someone else’s standards.” My mom always said to take the high road and not let others’ behavior affect mine. — Lila R., Florida
- “God gives new babies the strength they need to survive their parents.” — Carter E., South Carolina
- “Don’t marry someone you feel you need to fix; you’ll end up raising them forever.” — Olivia G., North Carolina (This applies to all genders, of course.)
- “Not everyone thinks like you do.” A simple reminder that has helped me understand others better. — Jamie S., Florida
- “Doing something is always better than doing nothing.” — Ella T., South Carolina
- “Visit the dentist regularly.” — Noah S., New Jersey
- “What are you going to do now?” My mom asked me this when I felt lost at 19, teaching me not to wallow in self-pity but to take action. — Chloe D., New York
- “Apologize to your kids when you’re wrong.” — Lily R., Texas
- “Don’t be a coulda-woulda-shoulda person.” — Mia D., Florida
- “This too shall pass.” This advice helps during tough times while reminding us that good times won’t last forever either. — Jack O., Florida
- “It’s just stuff.” This was my mom’s advice during my divorce, and it helped me with downsizing. — Ava S., Hawaii
- “Children grow in spite of us, not because of us.” — Brooke C., Wisconsin
- “Indecision is still a decision.” — Hannah W., Florida
- “Cat lovers and dog lovers can coexist, but non-pet owners struggle with pet owners.” — Alex R., New York
- “What others think of me is none of my business.” — Christine J., Florida and Sophia L., North Carolina
- “Everyone has an opinion about you; it’s up to you to decide if it matters.” — Emma D., Pennsylvania
- “We are not in the business of outcomes.” This phrase has helped me in various aspects of life. — Jenna K., Netherlands
- “Do one good thing for yourself each day; it builds self-esteem and helps center you amidst chaos.” — Lily M., Massachusetts
- “It’s okay to go to bed angry; often, things look clearer after rest.” — Mia B., Mississippi, and Tania M., Florida
- “If you’re going to dream, dream big.” — Zoe L., Illinois
- “You get two families: the one you’re born into and the one you create. You can’t change the first; the second is yours to mold.” — Kathy N., Illinois
- “Never assume; always ask.” — Chitra R., Doha, Qatar
- “Sometimes you need to listen to your head, not your heart.” — Elva Q., Texas
- “In conflicts with your teenagers, never let it escalate physically. Stay in control, even if it means walking away.” — Sinéad W., Ireland
- “Life isn’t the timeline you imagined at 18. Choices and circumstances change everything, so periodically reevaluate your path.” — Marlie G., Canada
- “Treat others how you want to be treated.” — Dana F., Florida
- “Sometimes darkness reveals the light.” — Mariah Y., Vermont
- “Allow your children to fail, so you can teach them to recover.” — Maria P., Illinois
- “You don’t have to believe in God, but you should believe in something greater than yourself.” — Jordin E., Colorado
- “Just be yourself and ignore the critics.” — Jennifer W., Tennessee
- “Don’t forget to breathe.” — Tricia K., California, inspired by our NICU nurses.
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- Best advice for personal growth
- Simple joys for happiness
- How to handle mistakes in parenting
- Importance of self-love
- Tips for effective communication with teens
In summary, I’ve gathered a treasure trove of advice to help guide me through the uncertainties of 2021. These words of wisdom remind me to focus on personal growth, embrace simplicity, and navigate challenges with resilience.