It’s well known that financial instability can cast a shadow over every aspect of life. When we can’t afford medical care, groceries, or even basic necessities like new shoes for our kids, it takes a toll on our mental and physical well-being. The COVID-19 pandemic has only magnified these challenges, pushing families already in tough spots even further down the financial abyss. Those living paycheck to paycheck found themselves praying for relief, worrying about how to manage Christmas expenses or afford winter coats, as their savings dwindled.
While the promise of stimulus checks brought hope, not everyone benefited; some were left watching in despair as their partners squandered the funds instead of settling debts or stocking up on essentials. Money may not guarantee happiness (there are plenty of wealthy individuals who are deeply unhappy), but it certainly simplifies life. Once you have the assurance that your utilities won’t be cut off and your car isn’t at risk of being repossessed, you can finally breathe a little easier. But until that relief comes, being a good parent can feel nearly impossible. It’s tough to find joy in your children’s laughter or celebrate their accomplishments when you’re preoccupied with worries about medical bills or what to do when they need new sneakers and your bank account is nearly empty.
“I would be the best mom if I were even moderately wealthy. I’m poor, though, and that sh*t is exhausting. So I’m stuck as a mediocre-at-best mom.”
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“I wonder what it’s like to work and actually keep my money instead of it all going to childcare. Must be nice.”
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“Feel like a general failure. Not a patient enough mom. Not a good enough wife. My job has sucked since I lost my career seven years ago. Just feel like a loser for wasting money on college.”
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“I feel worthless, poor, stuck, and lonely. I wish the universe would cut me a break already.”
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For many mothers, financial hardships create feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt in their parenting abilities.
“I think it’s ridiculous how high NSF fees are. Like, ‘Hey, this person can’t pay their bills, so let’s charge them another $50!’ It feels like they’re punishing you for being poor, which is punishment enough!”
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“$1,000 is all that stands between me and achieving a dream. Come on, second stimulus check. Mama is tired of always coming last.”
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“I regret not having my own money and bank account. I work part-time, but it doesn’t bring in much. My partner supports us, and though I manage the finances and pay the bills, I feel trapped. I wish I had a career.”
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Being poor often means feeling stuck, constantly being pushed down, and always coming in last.
“We have no money and I’m scared.”
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“My husband won’t stop spending all the money. Whenever we get any extra, he immediately spends it. I’m losing my mind because I want to breathe a little easier and not be constantly stressed about bills.”
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“I didn’t win the lottery, won’t get a stimulus check, my unemployment has run out, and I didn’t even get selected for jury duty, which would’ve paid $15 a day. Jobs are hard to come by, and I do NOT want to start couch surfing.”
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“I’m scared of what will happen to my family since we won’t be receiving a stimulus check, and I’ve been out of work since May.”
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Living without money is frightening and stressful, and it can feel like there’s no way out. For many, 2020 was a year filled with unprecedented fear and stress.
“I desperately hope to wake up tomorrow with my stimulus money in the bank. We need it badly. Grateful to have paid our rent, electric, and car payment, but we need groceries and supplies urgently. We have credit cards that haven’t been paid in two months.”
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“Hope another stimulus passes. Drowning because of COVID pay cuts.”
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“Everyone is getting their stimulus checks. We haven’t yet, and I’m freaking out.”
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“I DESPERATELY need another stimulus check if we’re going to survive. I’m so financially screwed right now.”
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“Recently unemployed due to COVID and just gave birth. I knew my maternity leave would be unpaid. But if they pass the stimulus with an extra $300, it would help my family so much. Please.”
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Many Americans are in dire need of additional stimulus funds. The previous two rounds of checks have offered some assistance, but they are not enough to keep struggling families afloat. Children are hungry, cold, and sick, and so are their parents. Everyone requires more support as we navigate this ongoing pandemic.
The reality for the average American is that money is tight, and this has been exacerbated by a pandemic that has introduced new stresses we’ve never encountered. Schools closed, workplaces shut down, and businesses closed their doors. Layoffs and furloughs swept the nation, leaving families scrambling to put food on the table like never before.
If any of this resonates with you, remember that you are not alone. As we step into 2021, with a new president and the promise of a vaccine, there is hope on the horizon. We can look forward to a kinder year for our mental health, physical well-being, and financial stability.
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Summary:
Financial instability significantly affects all aspects of life, especially for families. The COVID-19 pandemic has intensified these challenges, leaving many mothers feeling inadequate and overwhelmed. The promise of stimulus checks has provided hope for some, but not all have benefited, leading to feelings of despair. As we look to 2021, the hope for improved mental and financial well-being rises. Remember, if you’re struggling, you’re not alone, and there are resources available to help navigate these tough times.