If you’re shocked that Meghan Markle and Prince Harry have officially stepped back from their royal duties, you clearly haven’t been paying attention. Since their relationship became public, the British media has subjected Markle to blatant racism, classism, and sexism. In fact, she even had to take legal action against a publication for invading her privacy.
Now, just days before her highly anticipated interview with Oprah, Markle is facing accusations of “bullying” former staff members. Really? How about we let Meghan Markle enjoy her family and newfound freedom without the unnecessary drama?
It’s ironic that Meghan appears to be the one who has faced bullying throughout her time as the Duchess of Sussex. The documented racism and sexism she has encountered since her engagement announcement are staggering. However, because much of this discrimination is subtle microaggressions rather than overt hostility, many, especially in the UK, are reluctant to recognize what is happening: it’s racism.
The media has critiqued everything about Meghan—from her nail polish choices to how she holds her baby bump. Various outlets have perpetuated the “Jezebel” stereotype, labeling her as “a tease,” “racy,” and “Harry’s Hottie.” Her mother was unfairly described as “a dreadlocked African-American lady from the wrong side of the tracks,” rather than recognizing her as the accomplished individual she is. Moreover, we can’t forget the insensitive comparison of baby Archie to a chimpanzee.
Still skeptical? A charity cookbook she contributed to was inaccurately depicted as solely her project and mischaracterized as aiding terrorists. Additionally, a simple meal of avocado toast and tea with a friend was scandalously claimed to be “fueling human rights abuses.” The Daily Mail UK even published an article titled “From Slaves To Royalty, Meghan Markle’s Upwardly Mobile Family” to highlight her lineage in a derogatory manner.
Now, with the bullying allegations surfacing, this pattern feels all too familiar for many Black women in positions of authority. The stereotype of the “angry Black woman” often emerges whenever a woman of color asserts herself. Being ambitious or outspoken can unjustly lead to labels such as “demanding” or “uppity.” This stereotype reinforces the notion that Black women, like Meghan, do not belong in elite spaces and therefore should not voice their concerns.
The recent bullying claims describe Meghan as “demanding” and accuse her of “emotional cruelty.” Reports indicate that some palace aides felt “terrified” or “broken” in their roles, and one assistant was reportedly brought to tears. The Daily Mail even suggested that these staff members may suffer from a form of post-traumatic stress, likening their experiences to soldiers returning from battle. It all feels excessively dramatized, especially for a Black woman asserting herself.
White fragility often comes into play when a white individual assumes the victim role after a Black woman speaks out. Historian Alex Brown once articulated, “Every Black woman has faced a situation where a white person accused her of being aggressive simply for voicing an opinion.” I find it hard to give any weight to claims of Meghan being a bully.
Meghan is not the first woman of color to be labeled as such, nor will she be the last. Some may argue that she accepted the scrutiny that comes with marrying into the royal family, but no one should endure the relentless examination that Markle faces. She deserves to tell her side of the story, and once she does, I hope everyone will finally give her some peace.
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Summary
Meghan Markle has faced relentless scrutiny and bullying accusations in the media, highlighting the intersection of racism and sexism. As a Black woman in a prominent position, her experiences resonate with many who share similar struggles. It’s time to allow her the space to share her story and enjoy her life without further harassment.