Every week, I make it a point to check in on my friend James. He had a stroke just before the holidays and spent several weeks in the hospital. Now, he’s back home working hard through physical therapy to regain use of his right hand and leg, which he needs to continue running the local bike shop. Living alone in a cozy studio apartment just a few blocks away, I swing by on Thursday evenings to grab his mail, maybe bring dinner, engage in some light political banter, and ensure he has everything he needs. When my partner was in the hospital last year, James was there for us. Now it’s my turn to return the kindness.
Despite the significant challenges that James faces and the long road ahead, what resonates most with me is the fact that throughout the week, various friends and family members visit him. It’s heartwarming to see this network of support form around one individual in need.
When I arrive at his apartment, we wear masks and keep our distance, adhering to the necessary safety protocols to prevent COVID-19 from adding to his struggles. The fact that so many have come together during a pandemic to support a friend and neighbor provides a glimmer of hope in an otherwise challenging year.
My visits are brief—about 30 minutes each time—but I can tell they mean a lot to James. He usually waits for me at the door, no need to knock; I think he keeps an eye out for me from his window. He eagerly shares his progress with me. Just the other day, he was able to make a fist with his right hand and walked unaided, which was incredible. Occasionally, he manages to say words he struggled with just a month prior, and he beams with happiness at his regained speech. I always praise his progress and urge him to keep striving.
This experience has taught me that while we may be living more isolated lives than ever, there are still opportunities to lend a hand. People like James simply need someone to check in on them from time to time. We can still be good neighbors and community members while navigating the challenges of COVID. I assure you, even amidst the darkness, there is still light, evident in the friends and family rallying around a man working to regain his independence.
I’m not sharing this for accolades. I simply want to emphasize that during these tough times, it’s crucial to look out for one another. We should be reaching out to neighbors and friends, especially now. Making phone calls to those who might feel alone is essential. We must remain vigilant for the people we care about, as these have been dark times for many. While we celebrate the arrival of vaccines and the progress we’re making, we still have a long journey ahead before returning to normalcy, and many are still in need.
Throughout this challenging year, we’ve lost much of the community spirit that sustains us. This is not a critique of social distancing measures meant to protect us from COVID; rather, it’s a reminder that we can still connect and support one another while prioritizing safety. Caring for one another is how we create positive change in our communities.
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Summary
In these challenging times, the importance of community support has never been clearer. Simple acts of kindness, like checking in on a friend or neighbor, can make a significant difference in someone’s life. As we navigate through the ongoing pandemic, it’s essential to remain connected and supportive, ensuring that no one feels alone in their struggles. We can create positive change by caring for one another, even while adhering to safety measures.