Welcome to the Home Insemination Kit advice column, where our team offers guidance on various topics, including parenting, relationships, and more.
This week’s question:
How do you manage feelings of guilt when your child is the sole one in her friend group still learning remotely?
Dear Home Insemination Kit,
My daughter is 13, a challenging age for both of us. Like many kids, she has faced difficulties this past year, particularly in missing her friends. She’s extroverted and thrives on interactions with loved ones. Unfortunately, her friends have all returned to in-person schooling, and their families aren’t taking the pandemic seriously enough for me to feel comfortable allowing her to hang out with them indoors. She longs to go back to school, and I share that desire, but safety is my top priority—especially given the lax masking rules in our area and ongoing community spread. How can I support her during this time?
First off, sending a big virtual hug your way! Navigating the teenage years is tough, and doing so amid a pandemic adds another layer of complexity. It’s commendable that you’re so attuned to your child’s needs and trusting your instincts, even when they differ from others around you.
One approach is to highlight the value of consistency. If remote learning has been working for her this year, switching to in-person schooling right before the end of the semester may not be the best move. You’ve all endured enough change already, and it’s important to finish the school year strong.
Consider planning enjoyable activities for her as summer approaches. Perhaps a weekend getaway to a favorite spot or a special mother-daughter day filled with activities she loves—shopping, hiking, or even a backyard s’mores night with friends, if you feel comfortable. Having things to look forward to can make the current situation more bearable.
Remind her that families are handling the pandemic in various ways. Her friends aren’t necessarily doing anything wrong; they’re just making different choices than your family. With vaccinations on the rise, there is hope for the future, but we must remain cautious for now. It’s okay for her to feel frustrated about missing out on social interactions—FOMO can be especially strong at her age!
She’s lucky to have a caring mom like you, and with some plans on the horizon, she’ll navigate this period successfully. You both will get through this challenging time!
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Summary:
Navigating the challenges of remote learning during a pandemic can be particularly tough for teenagers. Parents can support their children by emphasizing consistency and creating exciting plans for the future. Open communication about different family choices regarding health can help alleviate feelings of isolation.