From The Confessional: We All Have Our Fears—Be It Death or Farting During a Brazilian Wax

Fear is a compelling force, something we can’t entirely evade. Many of us share the typical anxieties—concerns about our children’s safety, losing loved ones, or facing our own mortality. Yet, there are also some rather “unique” fears that can leave us chuckling or cringing. For instance, the worry about uncontrollably passing gas during intimate moments, driving off a cliff, or messing up a work presentation to the point where our boss thinks we’re incompetent.

Ultimately, we all harbor our “greatest fears” (mine revolve around my children’s safety and my profound fear of failure, with spiders coming in a close third). Then there are the day-to-day worries that shape our lives—like the dread of unexpected visitors ringing the doorbell when your kitchen smells like old takeout and the kids have left a mess in the bathroom. Or your mother-in-law. Just her presence can be a source of anxiety.

Unique Fears in Our Confessional

Here are some fears shared in our confessional that range from “I’m terrified of pooping during childbirth” to “What if I mess up my kids so badly that they resent me later?” It’s all laid out here.

One contributor shared: “My biggest fear is awakening to find myself in a casket. I know it’s irrational, especially with modern embalming techniques, but I still prefer cremation just to be safe. Must be from a past life trauma!” Confessional #25824908

Another admitted, “Sometimes, my anxiety spirals into morbid thoughts, like how my husband would look at his own funeral. I don’t want him to die; it’s my ultimate fear. Why am I like this?” Confessional #1768084

Death-related fears are prevalent, especially in light of recent global events. From worrying about waking up in a casket to the fear of never finishing a beloved TV series like Game of Thrones, these anxieties are all too relatable.

Some fears are more humorous, such as, “I’m terrified of farting or peeing on the lady who gives me my Brazilian wax.” Confessional #1675854 Others recount fears around bodily functions during childbirth, revealing that while these concerns may feel embarrassing, they are surprisingly common.

Deeper Fears About Relationships and Parenting

Then there are the deeper fears about our relationships and parenting. One mother expressed, “My greatest fear is that my children will grow to feel about me the way I feel about my own mother.” Confessional #1508571

Another shared, “I constantly worry I’m not a good enough mom, and that my kids will look back years later and think I failed them.” Confessional #25798844

The fear of being alone is another heavy burden many bear, whether it stems from divorce, death, or simply aging. One woman shared, “After a difficult relationship post-divorce, I dread the thought of being alone forever.” Confessional #25803294

Work-Related Fears

Work-related fears also plague us. A contributor mentioned, “I fear giving a presentation only to have the company president declare, ‘Wow, you really are that incompetent!’” Confessional #1652034

Fear can paralyze decision-making, especially when it comes to long-term commitments or financial obligations. It’s a daunting pressure that can keep us awake at night.

You’re Not Alone

Whether your fears are common like arachnophobia or more unique, like the fear of embarrassing moments during intimate grooming sessions, you’re certainly not alone in your anxieties.

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In summary, whether it’s common fears or more unique ones, we all experience anxiety about different aspects of life, from our bodies to our relationships and parenting. Acknowledging these fears can be the first step toward overcoming them.