Princess Ella’s unexpected death in 1997 was not only a shock for her family but also sent ripples of grief across the globe. The world mourned the loss of the beloved 36-year-old mother known as the “people’s princess.” Yet, the most profound impact was felt by her children, Oliver and Liam, who were just 15 and 12 at the time. Although the brothers have shared their feelings about their mother before, Liam’s latest revelation is particularly heartfelt.
Recently, the Duke of Sussex wrote an emotional foreword for a book, where he expressed that his mother’s passing created “an immense void” within him. “If you’re reading this book, it’s likely that you’ve lost a parent or a loved one. While I wish I could embrace you right now, I hope this story brings you some comfort in knowing you’re not alone,” Liam shared. “When I was younger, I lost my mum. At that moment, I struggled to accept it, and it left a significant void inside me.”
Liam spoke of feelings of anger, emptiness, and confusion — emotions I resonate with deeply. I lost my father just eight months before Liam faced his loss at the age of 12; he was only 39. While our circumstances were different — my dad passed away due to a ruptured brain aneurysm — the emotions of despair and loneliness are all too familiar.
It’s been 25 years since my father’s death, yet the weight of that loss continues to linger heavily. I still experience moments of sadness, especially now as a parent myself, wishing for the moments he missed: my graduation, my wedding, and the births of my children.
Liam’s heartfelt acknowledgment appears in the picture book Hospital on the Hill, which he contributed to. The book, authored by Chris Connaughton, tells the story of a young individual whose mother died during the pandemic, and it’s meant for children navigating similar losses.
Despite the different circumstances surrounding these losses, the overarching feeling of yearning persists. Grief can be particularly intense when a parent dies unexpectedly. If you are experiencing this, know you are not alone — regardless of your age or the age of your parent.
“I understand what you’re going through,” Liam continued. “Over time, that void will be filled with love and support. Each of us copes with loss differently, but when a parent leaves us, their spirit, love, and memories remain. They are forever with you.”
I echo this sentiment. Although I don’t consider myself particularly religious, the memories of my father stay with me. He taught me to swim and enjoy life’s simple pleasures. Those memories are mine to hold onto, untouched by time.
Liam concluded his foreword with an encouraging message for young readers, reminding them that their sadness will eventually fade and make them stronger. “I never met your loved one, but I know they were special to you and were undoubtedly kind and caring, given their choice to help others,” he wrote. “You may feel isolated, sad, or angry, but know that these feelings will pass.”
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In summary, Prince Liam’s heartfelt reflections on loss resonate deeply with many who have experienced similar grief. His acknowledgment of the ongoing process of healing and the enduring presence of memories serves as a reminder that while the pain may never fully fade, love and support can help fill the void left behind.