Girls just wanna have fun… ethically
Absolutely, feminist porn is out there—here’s how to access it. Just a heads up: it may require a subscription, and that’s perfectly acceptable.
In a prior post, I mentioned how I turned to adult films to explore my sexuality. While working on a book featuring two female characters who fall in love—a scenario I had yet to experience personally—I relied on porn to craft authentic intimate scenes. One commenter, who evidently skimmed the introduction on Facebook rather than the full article, sarcastically dismissed my belief in using porn for insights into realistic sexual encounters.
My initial reaction was to defend my stance. Realistic porn does exist; you just need to know where to find it. In my mind, I was conflating the adult content I viewed—porn that portrays more authentic sexual experiences, free from the male gaze—with feminist porn. While it is indeed possible to locate sex-positive, consensual, and thrilling adult films that do not cater to male perspectives, not every piece of content meets the criteria of feminist porn.
The truth is, the only way to ensure that the porn you consume is feminist is to invest in it. Previously, I wasn’t doing that, and I was mistaken.
If we care about the well-being of the performers in the videos we watch—meaning we want them to be safe, respected, and adequately compensated—we must pay for our porn. Accessing free content from various tube sites often means you’re consuming stolen material. We have no insight into how it was produced, how the performers were treated, or if they received fair compensation. Most likely, they aren’t profiting from our unauthorized views.
Moreover, these platforms are rife with problematic content, including issues like child sex trafficking and abuse. Until they address these serious concerns and ensure that income from their content reaches the performers, we should refrain from using them.
Top 10 Sites for Ethically Sourced Feminist Porn
Now that we’re aligned, here are my top 10 go-to sites for ethically sourced feminist porn that caters to a variety of fantasies. Be warned, none of the following links are work-safe.
- The Indie Porn Revolution
Founded in 2002 under the name “NoFauxxx.com,” this site aims to create a space for “ladies, artists, and queers” to produce the kind of porn they wish existed. Membership options include five-day, 14-day, monthly, or multi-month subscriptions. Content ranges from queer BDSM to ballet. - Pink Label TV
A quick look through their site reveals a diverse array of options, including a robust selection of free feminist porn, an educational section, and features like “The Feminist Porn Gaze.” - Literotica.com
This is the only entirely free option on the list. If you appreciate well-crafted adult stories, this site offers a collection of user-submitted tales that are screened for quality, searchable by interest. - Bright Desire
Promoting itself as a “celebration of sex,” this award-winning site focuses on intimacy, laughter, connection, and genuine pleasure. Their offerings include real couples and fantasy scenarios, with a membership granting full access to their extensive collection. - XConfessions
Run by Erica Lust, this indie porn site transforms user-submitted fantasies into films. Subscribe monthly to explore their diverse catalog of over 250 movies, all created with a commitment to performer welfare. - Good Dyke Porn
For $9.99 a month, this queer-owned and operated site offers a variety of content for lovers of female-centric adult films. They celebrate a spectrum of identities within the queer community. - Dane Jones
This site takes a more mainstream approach, focusing on sensuality and female pleasure. They provide both free content and a monthly subscription service. - A Four Chambered Heart
For those who appreciate artistic porn, this visually stunning site offers a collection of beautiful erotic stills and films that challenge conventional genre expectations. They also feature a transparency statement that reflects their commitment to ethical practices. - Crash Pad Series
Part of Pink and White Productions, the Crash Pad series creates queer-friendly adult content that embraces fluid gender expressions and sexualities. They offer subscriptions but also provide referral discounts. - OnlyFans
Directly support performers by subscribing to their OnlyFans accounts. Although there are still potential exploitation risks, the platform has identity verification processes to help reduce such issues. - Sssh.com
A pioneer in ethical porn, Sssh.com champions female pleasure with content that includes character development. They conduct surveys to shape future content based on user desires and offer a range of adult education resources.
This list is by no means exhaustive. The main takeaway is that many of us enjoy adult films, and there’s nothing wrong with that. However, if we’re deriving pleasure from others’ labor, we must strive to ensure they are fairly compensated and cared for. Otherwise, we can’t genuinely consider ourselves feminists.
For further reading on pregnancy and home insemination, check out this excellent resource from the CDC. If you’re interested in exploring more about home insemination kits, visit our other blog post.
Summary
Feminist porn exists and is accessible through various ethical platforms that prioritize performer welfare. By choosing to pay for content, viewers can ensure that performers are treated fairly and compensated adequately. The article highlights ten curated sites for feminist porn, each offering unique content and supporting the idea of ethical adult entertainment.
