Society’s Long History of Drugging Mothers Before the Rise of Mommy Wine Culture

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I recently delved into the film “The Stepford Wives,” based on Ira Levin’s novel, and learned so much more than I anticipated. This exploration was sparked by the insightful You’re Wrong About podcast, hosted by the brilliant and witty duo, Alex Turner and Jamie Lee. Their episode on “The Stepford Wives” offered a fascinating examination of how Levin’s satire continues to resonate today.

At its core, “The Stepford Wives” critiques societal norms surrounding feminism and the lengths to which men have gone to keep women, particularly mothers, compliant. The story follows Joanna Eberhart, a photographer and young mother, who relocates to an idyllic Connecticut town only to discover that the other mothers appear strangely robotic, overly focused on domestic duties. These women, once vibrant and independent, have seemingly been transformed into submissive housewives, manipulated by their husbands through sinister means.

This narrative might seem exaggerated, but it reflects a troubling reality. During the mid-20th century, women faced immense societal pressure to conform to domestic roles, and many felt overwhelmed and unheard. As the feminist movement began to gain momentum in the 1960s and 70s, psychopharmacological medications emerged as a troubling solution to women’s discontent. One of the first widely prescribed drugs was Miltown, marketed as a tranquilizer to alleviate anxiety and stress.

Miltown was touted for its ability to calm women down, with one doctor infamously claiming that it enhanced their sexual responsiveness. This manipulation of women’s mental health needs highlighted a disturbing trend: rather than addressing the root causes of their dissatisfaction, society chose to sedate them. This pattern continued with the introduction of benzodiazepines like Valium and Xanax, which, although initially perceived as less harmful, came with their own risks of addiction and abuse.

The over-prescription of these medications to women signals an ongoing societal issue, where women are often viewed as overly emotional or irrational. This stereotype persists, with many women still finding themselves on the receiving end of prescriptions instead of genuine support.

While the feminist movement has made strides, the reality remains that many men, particularly those in positions of privilege, continue to wield power over women’s choices, often pushing them to conform to traditional roles. Even well-meaning men may inadvertently reinforce these dynamics, expecting their partners to juggle the demands of motherhood and household management while offering superficial assistance.

Alcohol consumption among mothers has become a socially accepted coping mechanism, with “Mommy Juice” becoming a common phrase. This shift toward alcohol as a means of escape is troubling, especially as it masks the underlying issues women face. Instead of seeking solutions, many are resorting to self-medication, which can lead to severe consequences.

To combat this cycle, it’s essential to promote genuine support, self-care, and mental health resources. Women should not feel the need to constantly escape their lives; rather, they should be encouraged to seek freedom and fulfillment. It’s time for women to advocate for themselves and each other, challenging the norms that have historically oppressed them.

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In summary, the historical context of how society has managed women’s dissatisfaction through medication rather than support reveals ongoing issues that need to be addressed. Women deserve to thrive, not merely survive, in their roles as mothers and individuals.