Throughout my first pregnancy, I had a lot of expectations. I envisioned myself as a fun-loving mom, effortlessly taking my baby everywhere in a carrier—coffee shops, festivals, and gym sessions were all on my agenda. I was certain that breastfeeding would come naturally to me.
Oh, how wrong I was. Not a single one of those dreams materialized. In reality, we rarely ventured out because the stress was overwhelming. I didn’t return to the gym for years, and breastfeeding turned out to be an excruciating ordeal. It was painful, my baby struggled to latch, and I found myself in tears daily during those first six weeks.
Looking back, I’m grateful that I persevered. Eventually, my baby and I figured it out, and I was able to breastfeed my other two children without too much trouble. However, that journey instilled in me a deep empathy for all mothers—whether they choose to breastfeed or not. I firmly believe in the “fed is best” philosophy; no mother should feel compelled to breastfeed or owe anyone an explanation about how she nourishes her child.
While my breastfeeding experience ended positively (it was free, after all), that’s not the reality for many women. The challenges can be painful, exhausting, and can even impact mental health, not to mention the lasting changes to our bodies.
Breastfeeding is no joke, and all mothers—regardless of their feeding choices—deserve support, not judgment.
It’s disheartening to hear comments like “If it hurts, you’re doing it wrong.” No, it hurts because I have a tiny human clinging to me all day and night! Can we just acknowledge that breastfeeding can be painful even when done correctly?
Many women find themselves feeling insecure about their bodies post-breastfeeding. Changes can be drastic; some find their breasts have lost firmness, while others struggle with dryness or even lose their sexual confidence.
Mothers are often exhausted, juggling the needs of their babies while trying to maintain some semblance of their own lives. The truth is that we need to prioritize our well-being. If breastfeeding is causing you pain or distress, it’s okay to stop. You shouldn’t feel guilty for doing what’s best for you and your baby.
The pressure to adhere to breastfeeding norms can lead to immense stress and contribute to postpartum issues. It’s crucial that mothers receive the support they need throughout their feeding journeys—whether they choose to continue nursing or decide to transition to formula.
Breastfeeding is an incredibly taxing experience, both physically and mentally. Many women feel drained and overwhelmed, especially when attempting to manage multiple children, work, and household responsibilities.
In conclusion, whether you breastfeed or not, remember: your health is paramount. If you’re struggling, seek support. And if you choose to stop, know that you’re still a great mom if you love your baby and ensure they’re fed.
Two key truths I hold dear after nearly 13 years of motherhood: first, fed is best. And second, mom’s health matters.
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Summary: Breastfeeding can be an incredibly challenging experience for mothers, often filled with pain, exhaustion, and emotional turmoil. It’s important for mothers to receive support without judgment, regardless of their feeding choices. Ultimately, a mother’s health and well-being should always be prioritized, and the mantra “fed is best” should guide all decisions related to infant feeding.