Alicia Menendez, a host on MSNBC, articulated a sentiment that resonates deeply: “The story of Sarah Everard reflects the fears that many women share. It serves as a stark reminder that no amount of caution, personal choices, or sensible footwear can help a woman evade a system that neglects to prioritize her safety.”
Understanding the #TextMeWhenYouGetHome Hashtag
With so many trending hashtags today, it can be challenging to keep up. However, the message behind #TextMeWhenYouGetHome is painfully clear to women and non-binary individuals everywhere. These are the words exchanged among friends as they part ways, a simple reassurance that they will check in once they reach home. This phrase echoes a universal concern: what might happen when we leave one another in the dark?
Why must we find comfort in reassurances of safe arrivals? Why is it that those who identify as female don’t have the freedom to walk home without fear or threat? The responsibility for safety often rests on women, rather than on the broader societal issues at play.
A social media user named Emma said it best: “I struggle to express the overwhelming emotions surrounding Sarah Everard’s story. The fact that a woman couldn’t walk home safely is simply unbearable.”
Why Does #TextMeWhenYouGetHome Resonate?
Many have pointed out that Sarah Everard took all the precautions—she wore bright clothes, was on well-lit streets, and spoke to her boyfriend during her walk home. Women often go to great lengths to ensure that their friends know their whereabouts, sharing plans and establishing check-in times, all to ensure they are not forgotten. We often drop hints to dates or taxi drivers that someone is expecting us home, affirming our existence in a world that can make us feel invisible.
The Lack of Safe Spaces for Women
Recently, a friend recounted how she had equipped her 11-year-old daughter with pepper spray and taught her how to use it. Her husband was worried, suggesting that if she felt the need for pepper spray, perhaps they should reconsider where their daughter was going. Yet, my friend felt frustrated; she has been instilling safety awareness in her daughter since infancy, teaching her how to navigate a world that often views women—especially women of color—as targets.
Men, please take a moment to understand the experiences women share. Advice from my friend Jeff Harry on being a supportive ally is valuable.
It’s disheartening that in 2021, women still struggle to be believed, that we must create safety nets, and that we carry this anger. One has to wonder if the narrative would be different if the threat were to white men. Until we see substantial change, we are left relying on hashtags to voice our concerns.
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Summary
The #TextMeWhenYouGetHome campaign highlights the ongoing issues of violence against women, sparked by the tragic case of Sarah Everard. This conversation is crucial as it reflects the fears many women face daily. Despite taking precautions, women still feel unsafe and must rely on each other for reassurance. Awareness and allyship are essential to create a safer environment for all.