Have you noticed the social media frenzy surrounding Easter baskets lately? It’s like they’ve entered a whole new level of extravagance. Influencers are showcasing their children’s over-the-top baskets, overflowing with high-end gifts like designer sneakers, jewelry, gift cards, gaming consoles, and gourmet sweets. While these arrangements are undeniably stunning, I can’t help but wonder when Easter turned into a rivalry with Christmas.
Growing up in the 1980s, my Easter basket was pretty simple—just a book, some plastic eggs filled with jelly beans, and a chocolate bunny. That’s all it took, and my parents spent maybe $10. We were genuinely excited every year. Fast forward to today, and it seems like Easter has transformed into a holiday that competes with the fanfare of Christmas morning.
Many of us attend church in stylish outfits, snapping family photos, enjoying an Easter dinner, and of course, an egg hunt. Let’s not forget the all-too-familiar dyeing of eggs that fills the house with that unmistakable vinegar smell.
Here’s a reality check: You don’t have to get your child a gaming system or a designer accessory. Your child doesn’t need an extravagant basket filled with expensive treats. This year, I’ve seen an influx of Valentine’s and St. Patrick’s Day baskets too, overflowing with themed goodies. For Valentine’s Day, my kids receive just a book and a chocolate marshmallow, and for St. Patrick’s Day, I made Irish soda bread—does that count?
I cherish holidays, especially Christmas, when I go all out with cookies, decorations, and my four-gift rule. However, I refuse to meticulously arrange gifts for social media likes. It’s odd to me that these posts garner attention; they’re not reflective of the average family and feel more like a bragging contest.
I want my kids to appreciate holidays for the experiences they bring, not just the gifts. I recognize that many families can’t afford to create an elaborate holiday spread, and that privilege shouldn’t dictate how we celebrate.
Imagine if we brought back the simple Easter traditions of the 1980s: a lovely dinner, pastel outfits, and an egg hunt filled with coins, stickers, and candy. The excitement of trading candy like it’s Halloween would be lovely!
Easter can be meaningful without competing with Christmas. Don’t let guilt dictate how you celebrate. Even if you can afford to splurge on a fancy basket, why do it? Instead, consider using that extra money to support a cause, create baskets for those in need, or host a meal for others.
This year, I’m grateful for the hope that spring brings, especially as we navigate through the pandemic. My kids will get a book, a small toy, and something sweet—just like I did. We’re excited for our egg hunt, which will undoubtedly include some of my favorite candies.
Remember, happiness isn’t dictated by how much you spend. If your Easter basket is like mine, you’re doing a great job. There’s no need to feel inadequate if your kids aren’t showered with lavish gifts from a bunny. You can create a memorable holiday without overspending.
As we emerge from the pandemic, we have the chance to prioritize joy in simple moments rather than material possessions. If your feed is bombarded with extravagant Easter basket displays, consider unfollowing those accounts. Focus on what matters—spending time with your family and enjoying the special moments of Easter. Treat yourself to something delicious and embrace the joy of the holiday rather than feeling envious of others.
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Summary
Easter baskets have spiraled into a competitive extravagance, with many feeling pressured to match the lavish displays seen on social media. This article reflects on simpler Easter celebrations of the past, encouraging families to focus on the experiences and joy of the holiday rather than material gifts. It promotes a more mindful approach to holiday celebrations, emphasizing the importance of family and simple pleasures.