As a child, I was an avid reader. Every week, my father and I would visit the library after dinner, where I would spend one to two hours selecting more than ten books to last until our next trip. I devoured classics like Nancy Drew, the Boxcar Children, and Roald Dahl. Yet, over 30 years later, one character remains etched in my memory: Ramona Quimby.
Naturally, I read all of Beverly Cleary’s works, diving into the friendships of Ellen and Austine and learning about paper routes from Henry Huggins, but it was the Ramona series that I cherished most. I read each book multiple times, and when I stumbled upon the TV series on video at the library, I borrowed it repeatedly.
When I discovered the concept of “payday”—the day Ramona’s father brings home a special treat after receiving his paycheck—I insisted my father do the same. He offered me a dollar, but I explained that the treat needed to be a small item he had chosen specifically for me. I craved the anticipation and excitement that Ramona felt. I understood that, despite its modest cost, the treat symbolized love from her father. It’s no surprise that my love language happens to be receiving gifts.
The stories of Ramona didn’t feature mythical creatures, fantastical realms, or thrilling escapades. Instead, they depicted a girl observing and navigating her world, feeling emotions authentically. Beverly Cleary skillfully incorporated real-life issues into her narratives—topics like financial struggles, parental conflicts, and feelings of neglect—issues that resonate even 50 years later. These elements seamlessly blended into Ramona’s life, showcasing experiences that were genuine rather than exaggerated for drama.
Ramona’s experiences—the shame of wearing pajamas instead of a full sheep costume, the envy of seeing her neighbor Howie eat while she waited hungrily for her parents, and her desire to help the family during tough financial times—mirrored my own emotions. Beverly Cleary understood that children are acutely aware of their parents’ struggles, and these observations often lead to feelings that can be overwhelming for a young mind. Ramona’s mischief wasn’t born from being “bad” but from the weight of the world that a child sometimes feels.
With Ramona, I learned that feeling uncertain or anxious is a universal experience. When Ramona ultimately realizes her parents’ love and that she is secure, it reassured me that everything would be okay. That comfort carried me through many moments.
Decades later, the birth of my daughter reignited my passion for Beverly Cleary’s work. I eagerly awaited the moment I could introduce Ramona to her. This past year, it finally happened. My five-year-old is now discovering the world of Ramona at a time when she has witnessed significant challenges in our lives. She has seen her parents worry and struggle, yet, I hope she’s also learning that even imperfect parents have immense love for her.
Thank you, Beverly Cleary, for bringing Ramona Quimby into my life. You helped me understand that life’s imperfections are normal, yet they hold meaning. You conveyed these lessons with humor, simplicity, and warmth. A particular exchange from “Ramona and her Mother” resonates with me even now as a mother:
“Haven’t you noticed grown-ups aren’t perfect?” asked Mrs. Quimby. “Especially when they are tired.”
“Then how come you expect us kids to be so perfect all the time?” demanded Ramona.
“Good question,” said Mrs. Quimby. “I’ll have to think of an answer.”
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In summary, Ramona Quimby is more than just a beloved character from my childhood; she represents the complexities of growing up and the emotional realities that resonate throughout life. Beverly Cleary’s work provides comfort and insight, making her a timeless figure in literature.