When my partner and I were eagerly anticipating the gender reveal for our twins, joy filled the air. As the ultrasound technician moved the wand across my partner’s belly, I felt a rush of excitement. “Baby A is… a girl,” the doctor announced, followed by, “Baby B is also a girl.” My partner’s delighted exclamation echoed my own thoughts: two daughters! But amid the happiness came a surprising realization—two girls would mean navigating the world of periods together.
My partner vividly remembers her own awkward conversation about menstruation, while I can hardly recall mine during puberty. For girls, puberty can begin as early as age eight, leading to a myriad of changes that can be daunting to discuss.
With our twin daughters approaching their sixth birthday, the thought of puberty discussions looms large. However, I recently discovered the concept of a period box, which has eased my anxiety about this topic.
What Is a Period Box?
A period box is a thoughtful resource for girls, suggested by writer and blogger Mia Thompson. She recommends preparing a box for your daughter when she turns nine, although conversations about puberty can start even earlier. This customized box can serve as a tool for both parents and daughters to navigate this transition together.
Mia explains that creating a “first-period box” helps girls feel more prepared by familiarizing them with the products they’ll use, making the experience less intimidating. The box can also foster discussions about different sanitary products available, empowering your daughter to make informed choices.
You can use any box, but eco-friendly options are available at The Period Store, where you can also find product ideas to include.
When we had the puberty talk with our son, we were caught off guard. He came home one day after sixth grade and announced, “My teacher said we all need to buy deodorant this weekend.” This prompted us to have a candid conversation using books, particularly “It’s So Amazing: A Book About Eggs, Sperm, Birth, Babies, and Families.” We found that allowing him to guide the discussion made it easier, avoiding potential embarrassment.
As I prepare for a different but equally rewarding journey with my daughters, I’m excited to create a period box for them. This box will contain essentials like sanitary pads, menstrual cups, tampons, heating pads, herbal teas, and chocolates. I’ll also include a heartfelt note inviting them to talk openly with either me or their other mother whenever they need.
Think of the period box as a personalized gift filled with comfort, wisdom, and education. It’s essential for girls to learn from their parents rather than relying solely on peers, ensuring they have the support they need during this critical time.
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In conclusion, creating a period box is a fantastic way to initiate important conversations about puberty with your daughters. It not only provides them with the necessary tools but also fosters open communication, ensuring they feel supported throughout their journey.