Easter Baskets Have Gone Overboard—Why Is Everything a Contest Now?

Are you noticing the same trend I am on social media lately? Easter baskets have become outrageous—like at a whole different level. Influencers are showcasing extravagant baskets for their children, overflowing with high-end gifts such as designer sneakers, jewelry, gift cards, gaming consoles, and gourmet sweets. While these displays are certainly eye-catching, I can’t help but wonder when Easter turned into a competition with Christmas.

Growing up in the eighties, my Easter baskets were simple: a book, some plastic eggs filled with jelly beans, and a chocolate bunny. My parents spent no more than $10, and every year, we were absolutely thrilled with our treats. Fast forward forty years, and I still can’t comprehend why Easter has evolved into a holiday that competes with the likes of Christmas.

We often dress up for church, take family photos, enjoy a festive meal, and maybe even have a visit from the Easter Bunny. Let’s not forget the egg dyeing tradition, which inevitably leaves the house smelling like vinegar and boiled eggs.

Here’s a Reality Check

You aren’t obligated to buy your child a gaming console or any expensive gifts. There’s no need for designer accessories, gift cards, or even fancy chocolates. This year, I also came across numerous extravagant Valentine’s and St. Patrick’s Day baskets online, filled to the brim with themed goodies. For Valentine’s Day, my kids get a book and a chocolate treat, and for St. Patrick’s Day? Nothing, except for the Irish soda bread I baked—does that count?

I cherish holidays and go all out for Christmas, complete with cookies, music, and a thoughtful gift guideline. However, I won’t be color-coordinating gifts, snapping pictures, and posting them for validation on social media. It’s puzzling to me why such displays receive any likes; they feel like nothing more than a way to boast.

I want my children to enjoy holidays for the experiences they provide, rather than getting caught up in the material aspects. I also recognize that not everyone can afford a lavish celebration. Creating a perfect gift basket isn’t something everyone can achieve, and it reflects privilege.

Returning to Simplicity

Wouldn’t it be wonderful to return to the simple Easter celebrations of the past? A hearty family meal, wearing pastel outfits, and an egg hunt with coins, stickers, and candy would be perfect. Kids could then trade their finds, just like after trick-or-treating.

Easter shouldn’t have to compete with Christmas. Let go of that guilt.

Even if you can afford to create an elaborate basket, why do it? Why let kids think their happiness hinges on a basket overflowing with gifts? Instead, consider using that money for a good cause, assembling baskets for those in need, or hosting a socially-distanced meal for others.

I’m grateful for this spring holiday, especially as we continue to navigate the pandemic. However, my kids won’t be receiving baskets bursting with toys or gift cards. In keeping with my parents’ tradition, they’ll get a book, a small toy, and something sweet. We’re eagerly anticipating our egg hunt, which will certainly include some of our favorite candy.

The Truth About Happiness

The truth is, money has never equated to happiness. If your kids’ Easter baskets look like mine, give yourself a pat on the back. You’re doing a great job. There’s no need to feel like you’re letting your children down just because their haul isn’t extravagant. You can create a memorable holiday without overspending.

Especially now, with the pandemic affecting many financial situations, we have a chance to prioritize and find joy in simple activities rather than material possessions. I know it sounds cliché, but it’s true.

If you’ve found your social media feeds cluttered with ostentatious Easter basket displays, do yourself a favor and unfollow those accounts. You don’t need that kind of privilege-laden negativity in your life. Instead, focus on giving your kids a few thoughtful items and cherish the joy of Easter, rather than feeling envious of others. You deserve a positive experience, and so do I.

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In Summary

Easter should be about creating cherished memories rather than competing with extravagant displays. Embrace the joy of the holiday through experiences, not material gifts.