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If you’ve been curious about incorporating role play into your intimate moments, you’re in the right place.
By Jamie Lee
Updated: April 18, 2021
Originally Published: April 18, 2021
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My partner has this playful habit when we’re out shopping—he sneaks up behind me and whispers, “Well, hello, Miss,” as if we’re strangers. When he first started this two years ago, I thought it was just the excitement of a new relationship that got my heart racing. But even now, it still sends shivers down my spine and has encouraged me to explore role play in our bedroom—something I had never considered before.
Let’s be honest: being intimate with the same person for years can feel a bit monotonous. It’s perfectly normal to crave a little excitement in your sex life. Just as we don’t eat the same meal daily, our intimate experiences deserve variety. We naturally seek different feelings and sensations, and role play is an excellent way to spice things up.
Many of us feel hesitant at the thought of acting out a scenario, which is completely understandable. After all, few people enjoy hearing their own voice on video, let alone pretending to be someone else while flirting with a partner. To help ease into this exciting territory, we consulted a few experts.
Insights from Experts
Gigi Engle, a certified sex coach, shares some insights: “The key is to fully immerse yourself in character. Think of it as creating your own adult film.” A fun suggestion is to watch a scene from a film you enjoy and reenact your favorite parts. You don’t have to record it—unless you want to add another layer of excitement to your relationship.
Engle describes role play as a “choose your own adventure” experience. It’s an opportunity to step outside your usual routine and explore fantasies in a safe space. You can be anyone you wish and do anything you desire. Approaching role play as a new game can help ease the tension and make it more enjoyable for both of you.
Remember, there’s no right or wrong way to engage in role play. As long as you prioritize safety and consideration for one another, you can keep it simple—like pretending to be different characters and chatting flirtatiously. If you’re interested in more elaborate scenarios, this is the perfect chance to incorporate costumes or props.
For instance, if you’re interested in a college professor and student dynamic, you might pick up a playful outfit and some accessories to enhance the experience.
Getting Started
Megan Harrison, a relationship therapist, suggests a fun starting point: pretending to meet as strangers. Set up a date night where you dress differently than usual, and when you meet, act as if you don’t know each other. Flirt, buy each other drinks, and let the game unfold. Even if it feels awkward at first, laughing together can strengthen your bond and create lasting memories.
If you’ve been hesitant to bring this up with your partner, consider sharing this article with them. Alternatively, the next time you’re out together, try surprising them with your own playful approach. You might just discover how thrilling role play can be.
Additional Resources
For more tips on enhancing your intimacy, check out this article, which offers valuable insights. You can also consider visiting Make A Mom for expert advice on boosting fertility, and ASRM for excellent resources on pregnancy and home insemination.
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In summary, adding role play to your intimate life can rejuvenate your relationship and bring a new level of excitement. By approaching it as a fun and safe practice, you can explore each other’s fantasies and deepen your connection.